could it be that he is into me now?

Question

well read my previous questions and you guys will get the hang of things...now the simple thing is that, lately i have been ignoring him and he is so into me, he calls all the time to check up on me. he is so into me, now what i wanna know is that, do you guys think its for real??i mean all these times i made him crawl up to me and when he does i dont give as much attention and affection as before jsut to make him feel the pain i went through. he calls me sweet names as before, he holds me and now he is not only after sex, but we shares stuffs, we really communicate with one another unlike before. so what do you thnk??? mail me

Answer 1

The problem is the both of you have played so many games with each other in the past that neither of you knows for real what the other is thinking or doing.

The key to any real adult relationship is open and honest communications of both thoughts and feelings. If the the two or you risk losing a game long enough to be real with each other, then perhaps this relationship has a chance. If not, may the best player win.

Find a time to sit down and talk with each other (not just to each other). Listen carefully. If you both walk away feeling good, then do this again and often. Leave your masks and game plans at home.