I need some advice, Please answer..?
Ok..theres this really pretty girl ....I'm 15........Ive never talked to her, and need some advice on what to do...like how to charm her...and make her like me???How to get to know her, like a start up conversation..you have to remeber ive never talked to her before....plus, I'm really nervous....cuz I've been "talking" to several different girls over the course of the past year. But I always do something stupid, and mess it up.. So please only give me some serious advice.. I know to focus on my studies...I do..too..
2007-01-12 03:45:50 · 11 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it come to you,..what you do isn't stupid,..it is you.
and if the girls can't understand you, why would you want them anyway?
just keep being yourself and one day a girl who completely understands where you are coming from will be by your side.
2007-01-12 03:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should just go for it and talk to her. I know its easy to say be yourself and be natural than it actually is to do those things. But give it your best shot, because if worst comes to worst, it will all be over and forgotten in a few days. Go for it, you never now it mite work out for the better. But just have a general conversation to start eg. how r u, n e plans ect lame i know, but easiest way. P.S. DO NOT BE AN ASSHOLE, not all girls are into them, only a really small percentage, the girls who have them never really want them, you have seen movies where girls are crying to their friends about always attracting assholes!?? same in real life!! hope this helps! x
2007-01-12 11:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well as a girl myself i think you should just go up to her and introduce yourself. And like you say you get nervous just get over your fears and nervousness! For girls its easier if guys talk to us. Dont worry we girls get nervous too! And regarding the messing up with girls situation, if you have in your mind that you always mess up then you just might! just forget about the past and think of the future! Good Luck!
2007-01-12 11:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by love isn't everything! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest small talk to begin with, homework, teachers etc. Then maybe ask her out for coffee or something and go from there. Make sure it's really casual and make sure to be yourself, but try never to overwhelm the other person, that's some people's problem.
2007-01-12 11:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1just say hello
#2ask where she going
#3tell her she look good (the face-her clothes-her hair) (even if they are ugly)
#4then give her yo number and ask her to call you
#5then ask for a date after a month at most ( the movie, burger king, or breakfast etc
there goes a good relationship maybe married someday
2007-01-12 11:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by King_Sean93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok...well I think you should just start off by saying Hi...and then I'm sure she'll say Hey...so then You say "whats up" and she'll tell you...and then just go from there...use the basics and then maybe she'll open up to you more...and you guys can exchange email/aim names and then chat more on there
2007-01-12 11:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow..when I was your age I would have the same problem talking to boys. Now that I am older and we all talk as adults we laugh about it. Between me and you I regret not talking to them like I wanted to . so my advice to you is just go for it.
2007-01-12 11:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet, kind and caring when you talk to her. Go up and say "Hi" and stuff, ask her what kind of stuff does she like to do, and use your eyes to convey that you REALLY like her. Also, don't be too forward, I mean ask her stuff about her, but wait awhile before you ask her realationship stuff. But what's most important is that listen to her, care about what she says, girls really like that, and just REALLY BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!! Use your eyes too, That's a big help!!!!!!!!!
Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-12 11:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Molly P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she is interested in and study up on it. Then you'll have something to talk about . Ask questions about her. People LOVE talking about themselves. Ooooor..just be honest, walk up to her and say...'hey, my names so and so....I hear you like......snakes..so do I....or whatever....get my point?
2007-01-12 11:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Bones 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok find out what she's in to. and then just walk up to her be yourself and confident. also be a bit of an asshole at times. trust me girls love assholes.
2007-01-12 11:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋