I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3yrs. The sex is great but now we dont see each other as much. Maybe 2-3x's a month. Once we see each other I want to surprize her with something new! Any tip anyone could throw my way to kind of surprize her?
2007-01-12 03:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could try not having sex. Bet that would really surprise her! Most of the fulfilling enjoyment of sex lies in the emotional bond created by the value and devotion that we hold for our partner. Otherwise, we end up feeling empty and unfulfilled afterwards, despite the physical pleasure.
Say, "You are worth marrying and I hope that I can be worthy enough of your hand and respect you (and any unplanned children) enough to wait for marriage before having more awesome sex with you."
After the disrepectful fornication issue is resolved with marriage, you could try to keep things alive outside the bedroom with foreplay, sweet talk and service, and flowers and presents.
2007-01-12 03:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am just letting you know dont try to surprise her with no whip or something not knowing if she is even into that. Best bet would be to pick a cosmo and look over some of those tricks. Ok maybe some things may say like you gotto do this and this to a d*ck.....well...lol skip that part but when it comes to sexy suprises and whole foreplay junk and whole blindfold, role play, toy stuff tricks and advices you take on that. Some of this may seen weird you may say because cosmopolitan is for females, they do have section for men and some sections for females are good. I mean we talking here how to please mans body....well females body is no different besides chest, privates and less hair on a body...lol We do have same nervous endings and sensetive zones that can be worked on different ways and improvised with so work your magic. Oh and by the way not sayin my bf is not good in a sack but i wish he was as motivated as you are. So guess what once you have motivation you rule her world!!! Good luck and be safe.....dont break no bathroom mirror messing on a sick like i did on Christmas. ;)
2007-01-12 03:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a nice romantic candlelit dinner w/ some luscious dessert. Then take a long hot bubble bath together...have some red rose petals all over the bed & bedroom...feed each other some finger food in bed....have lots of candles and mood music playing....you could even end the evening with a nice sensual massage.
2007-01-12 03:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by foxiegixxergurl2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A great way, and this is coming from a hopless romatic woman, so listen up ;) Take her out to dinner, and a movie of her choice, really treat her, and compliment how nice she looks, the new hair cut etc., when you go home, have the room all set up with rose pettals, candels if you can, very "in the mood" music, and have a good night!
2007-01-12 03:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Health nut/Extremley Active 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fill the room with lighted, scented candles. Put on some sexy or soft music, even classical is very nice. Perhaps you could wear a nice pair of silk boxers and then give her a massage with oil ... all over. But, then begin to get more sexy with your massage, massing her breasts and her butt and kiss her all over until you have her completely aroused. Look into her beautiful eyes and tell her how badly you want her and how much you missed her and make love to her right then and there.
2007-01-12 03:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by hypwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cosmopolitan magazine has some good tips, or the Kama Sutra has some nice positions. learn some and surprise her, or you could start doing it in naughty places...there are two links bellow one to Cosmo and one explains the Kama sutra and shows positions and what have you
2007-01-12 03:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why so less of time?? Rose petals on the bed, candles, massages, incense, music, bubble bath, sexy clothes.......
2007-01-12 03:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to all this kinky whiteboy crap these fools are telling you, if she will go for that nonsense , than she is a freak already and you need to step aside and let areal man handle his business
2007-01-12 03:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by rockstar_livin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can try to do something you guys have never done before and try new sex positions
2007-01-12 03:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her something from victorias secret , get a motel w / a jacuzzi ...you can think up the rest
2007-01-12 03:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by klunk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋