how do i...?

Question

tell my mom im not a virgin anymore?..she alwayz told me to tell her when i was ready but i didnt..i jus turned 16...shid i tell her now?..and how?

Answer 1

Dont tell your mom that ish girl.. If you do it will change your relationship with her for ever. Parents just want to know what your doing so that they can be in the loop. Im sure if she wants to know she has already thought you about unprotected sex. So keep it to your self. Your mother is a grown woman and us adults can tell anyway without you brodcasting it. Look I knew this chick who had the same relationship with her mom. Once she did that the leash got short. Yo mom will be thinking everytime you go out with a guy and stay late you are going to do it. She will ask you after you tell her. When ? Where? Why? How? and Who? So than she will adjust your schedule and keep you close so that you dont get pregnant. Not saying that it will happen. But this thing scares parents. just keep it to your self thats whats adults do.

Answer 2

I would tell my mother. If nothing else but to save her heart if anything unexpected happens, such as pregnancy or STD's. Besides, it is human nature, especially at your age. It really gets intense when your about 30 years of age.

Answer 3

I know it can be hard to tell you mom something like this but, you just have to trust her! If she once told you to trust her then i think you should! I think that after you tell her you'll feel much better! She shouldn't get mad its your life, you would know what to do with it!

Answer 4

i tell my mom stuf when she least expects it in a casual conversation so shes not so serious just tell her dont make it a bigger scene than it is jut go out and say it

Answer 5

yes you should tell her, and be honest , straight up. if its easier write her a letter. be careful out there, at your age you need to be on birth control, and in my opinion are way too young to be having sex.

Answer 6

yes u should tell your mother and u will find away to tell her