so the ex and I wernt talking and I follow my heart i send her a txt message she calls me a few nights later... I told her I wrote her a letter and sent it via facebook message with my realest feelings! So she said "I will read it and call u back"
Its been about a day and no call back...
Should I persue this any further, should i send her a text or try calling her in a week if she doesnt make contact... Or should I take this as a sign and tell me self she knows my feelings if she wnts to come around shell come around if not ... its over...
(I can see she has a new college life and even a new guy shes diggin, but i did this out of love...)
2007-01-12 03:28:10 · 26 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try remember why you end up breaking up in the first place.
2007-01-12 03:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by SP 2 · 14⤊ 0⤋
One day isn't very long. She has to think about it after she reads it. A day seems much longer when you are waiting like that. Give her some real time. If you really love someone you give them space. Some times being away for a while makes the heart grow fonder. Give her heart a chance to catch up with her head.
2007-01-12 11:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave the ball in her court with the 1st text message. If she calls, she calls, but if you do not hear from her, it will be HER LOSS!! Wow, that would be wonderful if my ex wrote me a letter of his realest feelings!! That is sooooo sweet! Good luck and don't stress it.
2007-01-12 11:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by bradnmich2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't push the issue and if she contacts you in the future and your not involved with someone and you still have feelings for her then I say try again but in the meantime just go on with your life. If you and her are meant to be then you'll get back together.
2007-01-12 11:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the silence as a sign of her feelings. Even though she may be busy and not have had an opportunity to read your letter, it would be better for you if you accepted that she has moved on.
2007-01-12 11:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to think about it, she may not be calling you back because she knows you are right there waiting for her so she will keep doing what she's doing. I would just back away give her time and maybe call her in 2 weeks if she hasn't contacted you.
2007-01-12 11:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by padros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta throw in the towel on this one man. i know it sucks but if u already told her how u feel and she dont call back or even say anything bout it, then shes probably just confused or she really doesnt want anything to do with u. sometimes the best way u can show ur love, is to let go and let them be happy with who ever they want. thats life man.
2007-01-12 11:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you wanted to hold on to your ex, you should have taken care of business when you were together. But since you didn't, you've screwed that up. She's gone now, she's got her someone who apparently she wants to be with.
Right now she's probably laughing with her friends and new boyfriend about the ex that wants her back.
time to move on and get a real life.
2007-01-12 11:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her call you go hang out with your friends, go to parties meet new people... If she comes around then so be it don't waste all your life waiting for that one person that confuses you on how she feels obviously she didn't know what she really had!!
2007-01-12 11:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by That girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She is not worth it. From what it sounds she is not even into you any more. Stop making a fool out of yourself and move on. Find yourself few guys to go out with and hoe around and find yourself a new mutual fan. Please do us all a favor, because your question hurs my eyes. I actually feel bad for you and you dont want people to feel bad for you, do you?
2007-01-12 11:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to talk. She will respond to the letter. Maybe she is trying to get her other situation together first.
2007-01-12 11:37:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋