Has anyone been in love with 2 people? One you see a future with. One you can't get your mind off. Who did you choose? Are you happy? Did you make a mistake?
2007-01-12 03:14:00 · 12 answers · asked by Need Answers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend Alex is in love with two guys. one she sees herself a future with and the other a lot of beating by verbal abuse. she chose the one that she could see a future with. I say go with the one you see a future in.
2007-01-12 03:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by i_love_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i may not answer ur question but in your situation i have been the girl that the guy could not get out off his mind and i tell u that was hard because he still loved his other girl the one he says he had a future with and that hurt me big time ......his been wanting to get together but I've been dodging him as i wouldn't wanna be the cause of an ugly break up
2007-01-12 11:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by choices 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one that you can't get your mind off of. If you can yourself having a future with one, but you can't get your mind off of another, it's definitely a better idea to go with the one you can't stop thinking about, they matter to you more. And you never know, you could ending having a future with the one you can't stop thinking about too.
2007-01-12 11:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tabby T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I have been one of the "two" before and it is no fun. Choose one and stick with it. Who could you see yourself with forever? I'm sure that one is fun and one is practical.
I made the decision for him. Dumped his sorry a--.
2007-01-12 11:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Colette B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i chose not either one of them and it hurt me really bad but i am doing way better just being their friends because i did not want to lose everything that we shared no i did not make a mistake
2007-01-12 11:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did at one time. I got neither. It really sucks, but it's all your decision about who you go with. You have to be honest with yourself and the other 2.
2007-01-12 11:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Dianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great question, all I can say is dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
2007-01-12 11:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by bsantezee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in love with one, in lust with another...i choose both. i was honest with both they knew about each other so i wasn't deceiving them. did i make a mistake ?.....no. we were all happy and it turned out very well for the three of us.
2007-01-12 11:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say the 1 thats always on your mind, may just be lust, think about it and decide which 1 you rly love, cos u cant be in love with both!
2007-01-12 11:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by yuygj2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but then eventually u will find that only one them really interests u because u will have the tendency to compare both of them to each other
2007-01-12 11:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋