What do you do when your boyfriend thinks your cheating on him? you work with one of his friends who apparently you talked alot about him. one day your bf confronts u about it and asks if u like this guy. u say no and then just stop talking about him at all. a few weeks later he confronts you again asking why u havent talked about this other guy. he thinks there is something going on because i talk about him, then thinks there is something going on ebcause i dont talk about him. what should i do?
2007-01-12 03:09:35 · 9 answers · asked by Ashes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first of all, no man likes his lady talking bout another guy so much especially if its his frend. he feels intimidated by the fact that ur talking and spending more time with his frend than with him. he probably knows how his frend is around women. i got frendz i cant trust my lady round cuz i know the way they are. they start acting stupid. anyways, i say u convince him ur not cheatin on him with his frend by giving a lil more attention, being sweet and giving him a lil more confidence by telling him how much u appreciate him for everything he does. and maybe even, if u can afford it, just quit ur job. i think sometimes its better to lose a job or belongings, than the one u love.
2007-01-12 03:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that he is either insecure about himself, or he doesn't fully trust you. I just think you need to sit him down, talk with him, and let him know that there is truly nothing going on between you two. On a good note though, the reason he keeps asking you about this, is because he cares and doesn't want to lose you. So good luck and God bless you in this situation.
2007-01-12 11:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just a jealous guy. Be yourself and avoid uneccessary confrontation and be cool. If there's nothing between both of u, there's nothing to worry! Unless u do!
2007-01-12 11:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by RenRen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is truely nothing going on and you dont like him you need to talk to him and see why he dosent trust you, try and convince him that you do love him and dont want anyone else. Let him know you stopped talking about him because you knew it bothered him...If there is absoultely no way of trust seek counseling
2007-01-12 11:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by hazeleyes_127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your BF know that there is nothing going on between you & his friend, but you felt that he was uncomfortable in you talking about him so you stopped. Nothing more nothing less.
2007-01-12 11:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful it sounds like you have a very controlling possessive boyfriend!
2007-01-12 11:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and let the chips fall where they may
2007-01-12 11:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by an_articulate_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say what you've just said but to him.
2007-01-12 11:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should quit cheatin
2007-01-12 11:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋