should I tell my friend his mom and I have been kind of dating for a month
2007-01-12 03:02:14 · 14 answers · asked by david s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not goi9ng to be his dad, she is still married, but like ALL marrages they go some waht bad after a few years and the female NEEDS it, so I am just giving her what she needs, even though married peole stay together, the sex goes down hill, she is 5'3" 105lbs blond blue eyes, large uppers
2007-01-12 03:08:16 · update #1
I have done this with other friends moms and now we do not, and no one knows still
2007-01-12 03:09:09 · update #2
I never said all marriages END, I said the passion and talking ends, even though they go through the mossions ever day for YEARS...semi happy living together
2007-01-13 03:20:23 · update #3
Hell no, being his friend gives you more easier and secure access to connect with his mom (MILF), unless its going to be more of a serious thing and you feel he should know, but ifs its just sex, keep it as it is.
2007-01-12 03:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well buddy, you desperately feel like you have to validate your actions by saying that all marriages eventually end. while its true that most marriages end up in divorce, there are still some that make it. and that is no excuse to have an affair with a married woman. since you are son's friend i can only guess that you are his same age, which would make you very young. wow! in a marriage there are two people, so if it breaks up, its' a double fault. now, when a third party walks in and decides to help break it, then its a triple fault. so now you'll just continue to hook up with her, because since your used to doing this, you definately wont take this kind of relationship seriously. ask yourself: would you rather continue hooking up with your friend's mom, or keep your friendship with your friend? though, at this point if he finds out he'll probably cut you out of his life, and i bet you'll still continue sleeping with his mom. gotta tell ya, your moral standards are very low. it's not that im trying to insult you, but at the rate your going, you'll ruin every friendship you'll ever have. because at some point, the truth will come out. you wont be as sneaky forever. SO, YOU SHOULD DEFINATELY TELL YOUR FRIEND THE TRUTH. he deserves to know. and his mom should be ashamed. if she needs a man to give her what she needs besides her husband, she should know better than to look for it amongst her son's "friends".
2007-01-12 14:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to lose that guy as a friend, then tell him.
Don't be surprised if it's answered with a right cross to your left temple.
By the way, you're probably not the only one dating his mom.
You know what they say about women; they're like dog-poop.
The older they get, the easier they are to pick up.
Hey! Where does the line form?
2007-01-12 03:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by The Mac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever wondered why the vulgar expression Mother ****er is meant as an insult? Consider this carefully before you continue in your relationship. Freud says that all men have their first carnal relationship with their mother, even though few ever have an incestual relationship.
While I never wanted to have sex with my mother, I did find myself resistant to the advances of her suitors, after my parent's divorce.
Your friend will have a great many and very complicated feelings to push through, and he's more likely to stay friends with his mother, and she with him than to continue any relationship with you.
I wish you luck, but search your heart... are you also involved in this relationship because there's a certain forbidden quality to it?
2007-01-12 03:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jason W-S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be honest with your friend. Tell him you and his mom are dating, if you still want to be friends with him. You can take a chance and if you tell him he might be understanding and still be your friend. But that's a risky chance!
2007-01-12 03:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by wizzgirl92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be dating your friend's mother. It's not kosher to do that. You should break it off and keep it a secret.
2007-01-12 03:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Maji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the mom should be the one to tell.
2007-01-12 03:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by bhriannh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you want him to still be your friend. Oh, by the way, break it off immediately
2007-01-12 03:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not really any of his business. Too often in life being honest has consequences.
2007-01-12 03:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems from your previous question that you have a thing with older woman..why not give girls a try that are your age
2007-01-12 03:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋