On thanksgiving he was flirting with another girl, he said he didn't realise he was flirting. He swears he never wud do that to me, but since thanksgiving I am constantly thinking about it. What about nights I don't go out with him?? Does he spend the night flirting?? His friend cheated on his own girlfriend that very same night with the girl my boyfriend was "flirting" with. Am i being paranoid, Its driving me mad!!
2007-01-12 02:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by TTC #1 With PCOS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're letting the "what ifs" take control of your thought process and this is no good. It just leads to more and more anxiety. I know, I've been there. Lot's of people flirt ok. You need to take a look at why your not trusting your boyfriend. Where is this coming from? Also, what proof do you have that he did anything with her? Just because his friend shagged that girl doesn't mean he did ok.
2007-01-12 03:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the biggest factors in a relationship is TRUST!! if u cant trust your bopyfriend, then u should think twice about ur relationship. Sometimes guys dont realize when they flirt. they say " she flirted with me,.. i just smiled back, i didnt DO anything"..well.. for us girls, its a whole lot. IF u really are paranoid with good reason, and facts, then go with your gut ur intuition.. cuz us women have been blessed with that.
Good lUck
2007-01-12 11:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy is flirting with another girl, that's reason enough to dump him. Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn't think that your everything in his world?? Sure your bf might take a glace at another gir, what guy wouldn't, but he still should be flirting with only you.
2007-01-12 11:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by hdedone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you're that insecure, its time to start wondering if you actually love the guy. With love comes trust, or did you forget that part?
2007-01-12 11:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps a little paranoid --- trust him if you cant do that then the relationship is in trouble anyway
2007-01-12 11:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tough..because men never tell the damn truth even when u are begging them..so i would say just watch him..keep on top of things...let him know that u would not do that to him..so please dont do it to you...speak to him...its tough..but keep your eyes open
2007-01-12 11:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to him bout it remember communication
2007-01-12 11:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him, tell him how u are feeling. And ask him wut is going on? He might be or might not.
2007-01-12 11:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Brady B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋