One of my best friends is going out with this guy, and she really likes him but he told me that he sill RELLY likes this other girl who likes him back but cant date yet. I feel this guy is cheating on my friend and i wanta let her know what i know witthout hurting her, plus im scared her bf wooulldd like beat my up if i told her all this. WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!??!!
2007-01-12 02:53:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a good friend to your girlfriend and tell her! Wouldnt you want someone to tell you if the shoe was on the other foot? *hugs* :)
2007-01-12 02:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Airplanegirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can take an advice of a previous reply and tell her everything. BE A FRIEND, blah blah blah. Let me tell you something, if you care for her and want to stay her friend do not stick your nose in their bussiness. Let me explain you why. First off he said she said **** is not an evidence of him liking someone or even cheating or planning on cheating on your friend SOOOOOOO let it go. Also from personal experiences and my friends experiences once you try to dirt your friends boyfriend they turn away from you because she may love him and he may feel important to her and even if he cheated and she found out about it and forgave him, do you think she will stay friends with you? I wouldnt want a friend that is quick to rat my man about something that she or he said. You asking what should you do? Nothing! And if you really, i mean really want to do something and you are really concerned that he is doing her dirty then make a set up where she may see something fishy about him with you, not when you see it and she never did, feel me? I dont know if it makes sense. If you want to stay friends with her make sure whatever there is to say about her boyfriend doesnt come out of your mouth, and if it does then in indirect manner and on some "by the way" or "have you ever thought about" or "i heared from this and that, but i thought it was a lie," all that will not going to put you in a possible hater or enemies position but will make her think and check on her man. Trust me there can be no better answer than this....its proven!
2007-01-12 11:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, you should stay out of people's relationships because if it goes bad, they might blam you.
But since you want to help, you should tell you friend what he told you. If she doesnt believe you, dont take it personally. Just say thats what you heard, and she can either believe you and do something about it, or just go on in life blind.
Also dont forget to remind her not to tell her bf that it was you who told her about all this information. Suggest to your friend to have a talk with her bf to find out if thier relationship is going downhill or not.
2007-01-12 10:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that you cannot tell her, or are afraid of him, start avoiding being around when he is, and when she asks why, let her know that he has done some things you are not comfortable with, and don't want to be around. That should get her to ask him.
2007-01-12 10:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should be sure he is cheating. Then try little hints, or just tell him to leave your friend alone if he is interested in someone else.
2007-01-12 10:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tellina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her she might be mad but in the end she will be happy you told her and he might actually be happy that he didnt have to break her heart for another girl.
2007-01-12 10:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. if he beats you up then file for harassment charges or assualt and batery. it is best for her to know the truth now before they do anything important like she falls in love or he could indanger her life.
2007-01-12 10:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by i_love_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would tell her she would be more hurt if she found out that you kept it from her and make her go through heart ache.
2007-01-12 11:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay out of it..
involving ur self won't make u a better "best friend"..
let alone that she might think u're just jealous from her!
if u want ur friendship unaffected, stay out of it, but when she gets hurt, be there for her..
2007-01-12 11:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Deema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should pretend to tell it to someone and let your friend "accidentally" overhear what you said...in that way, your friend's bf can't blame you for letting the secret out..
2007-01-12 10:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋