I am not rich or beautiful or motherly and I just don't know what I can possibly offer a man but I would like to fall in love.
What are men looking for?
2007-01-12 02:43:30 · 27 answers · asked by SmartBlonde 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS I don't cook and am not keen on cleaning up after other people either.
2007-01-12 02:51:36 · update #1
PPS Sex is great, but surely a guy can get that from just about anybody its not a reason to fall in love?
2007-01-12 02:54:52 · update #2
The first important thing is that you like each other, as in you get on, can have a laugh with each other, and enjoy each others company. When you have all that thats when you can enjoy sex more then you've ever known was possible because when you get on, you trust each other more, you talk more openly, therefor you don't feel uncomfortable trying more. Its also nice to get on with your partner as friends as well as lovers because then you have your companion that you can share everything with, good, bad, happy, and sad.
2007-01-12 04:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Carl H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself & dont worry about what others think Where abouts do you live? if england well? America ?? you can offer men lots of things friendship for starters. If a man only wants sex then thats not the sort of relationship you want try having a few hobbies try having a few weekend breaks if you can afford if not then try joining a club or 2 . but dont give up its better to have tried and failed and not tried at all. ( Lorna)
2007-01-12 12:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Heartbreaker. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a companion --- someone to share a life and see where it leads
i admit this only comes from an ex wife of 30 years 3 children and lots of soul searching
and it was never only about sex --- if you dont get along then the sex will not be as good and the better you know the person the better the sex is
2007-01-12 10:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rich and motherly arent important on first sight. If your not beautiful then dress sexy. Act like your the ****. If you do this id talk to you because id think there must be a reason your so confident if your not pretty. If your sexually attractive you could make me think im with jenifer lopez.
2007-01-12 10:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jay B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smarter than most as you know,& probally had to cook to survive if you live alone? Money pays the bills n helps for the little things in life,beauty is only skin deep so the heart would count in my case,motherly would only come on the scene if one became pregnant,so,What are "we" looking for? it`s all here.?
2007-01-12 11:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you doubting your attractiveness ? Money isn't the answer, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and motherly, well want man want a girl that's reminds them of their mother !
I'm sure you have a lot going for you, but your lack of believe in yourself is clouding you vision. I cant tell you what everyman want from a woman, but for me I'd have to say honesty thoughtfulness sense of humour and confidence, I don't know you, but i know the one thing your missing is self confidence, start by being positive about yourself, think only of your good points and see where it takes you. good luck xx
2007-01-12 10:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually want somebody to do the cooking, cleaning and washing their clothes. A real man would want you for companionship, somebody to share his life with. You could still get rich later in life and beauty is only skin deep, so.....
2007-01-12 10:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Luvfactory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may surprise you to know but men want the same things that women want,
we want our partners to make us feel special, like we are king of the world for being in your company,
we want to see you smile, even though our humour may be a bit lame,
we want some one who can hold us and let us know we are attractive and sexy,
we want someone who we can talk to about whatever comes into our heads in any moment,
someone we can agree and disagree with with out causing wwIII,
we want to feel supported when we do our manly things,
and some time stupid things
we want to be loved
same as you
and remember,
that which is loved is always beautiful,
and a genuine smile is worth more than gold.
x
2007-01-12 11:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always want what they cant have.
You stick to your way of living babe, love will come your way eventually so don't be changing for some guy just because he wants a mother figure to look after him and not a girlfriend to love him.
xxx
2007-01-12 10:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking for love, trust and support, from a women. Also good conversation, sex, and fun. If u fit the description give me your details.
2007-01-12 10:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Convince Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋