There is this guy that is really into me both physically and mentally but he is married. We have already done the do once and he does things for me and looks out for me. I saw who his wife was after we had done it and she is this chic that i beat up when i was 14 (she was 17) for trying to steal my then bf from me. so not only do if have someone that i really don't have to worry about getting attatched to but there is the perk of sweet revenge. I am the first person that he has ever cheated on his wife with for the entire time that they have been together. They don't seem to have any major problems but he always tells me that he wish he would have met me before he had gotten married. Why is he cheating now?
2007-01-12 02:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by PreciousLady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He cheats because you let him. He is comfortable with his wife and will not leave her because that is solid and locked in. He dosen`t have to worry about his current wife. He can see you and get the pleasure of another relationship, his wife and marriage. You, on the other hand, seems to be satisfied with the way he is doing things. He has his cake and can eat it too! He will not mess it up with his wife, even if it means leaving you and going to someone else while he is still married. This is just an opinion that I have from personal experiences in my life!
Good luck, I`m out, Peace!
2007-01-12 02:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat, always a cheat.
Maybe you should consider that you're not the "only" other chic.
He probably tells his wife "I never have and never will cheat on you". Then he tells each girl he cheats his wife with "You are the first person that I have ever cheated my wife with", so that you won't think he's all that bad.
When he finally gets divorced, and marries another, what do you think will happen?
What makes you think it's "all of the sudden". It's well known that cheaters cheat long before they say "I do".
2007-01-12 02:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by curly bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are pigs. Just because he says that he has never cheated before, doesnt mean he is telling the truth. Probably a 5 year itch he wants to scratch. Just remember... Kharma is a bitc# and what goes around comes around... I hope you are fully expecting that someday you will be happy in love and that guy is going to cheat on you, just like you are helping this guy cheat on her. Its wrong sweets... no matter what kind of spin you put on it.
2007-01-12 02:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's taking him for granted.....doesn't appreciate him and is just in need of attention.........nothing personal but you're just a fix
2007-01-12 02:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven year itch.
2007-01-12 02:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋