22f here....I have decided to give my man his ultimate fantasy, a threesome with another girl and myself. (We have already had some play dates with another couple recently as well). Girls and guys, have you done this? (while in a relationship) What was it like and how did it impact your relationship?
2007-01-12 02:10:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have, several times, and it was excellent.
2007-01-12 02:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by redjetta 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My wife and I have been swingers for several years and have done numerous threesomes, both FMF and MFM. They have been great. I love MFM because I love seeing my wife having fun. Her having a good time is a good time for me.
How has it impacted our relationship. We had a great relationship and great sex together before we started swinging, and it just got better after.
But, we went into it together and for the right reasons. There was no "convincing", "coercing", or "manipulating" either of us into it. We both shared similar sexual fantasies and being secure in ourselves, each other, and our relationship, we have been able to live-out those fantasies without issues. You could say we are each other's "partners in crime." LOL
For some good, objective information about this, and how it effects couple's relationships, check-out The Swingers Board. There is a great Swinger Advice and FAQ section as well as open forums that all this is being discussed 24/7.
2007-01-12 16:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I did the same thing with my ex bf but i made sure he knew it was a one time thing but he kept insisting on doing it again and he always talked about the other girl (my best friend )when he was with me in the end i had to break off the relationship. If you feel your relationship is strong enough to maintain itself through this endeavor then more powere to you but keep in mind it may not turn out like you want it to
2007-01-12 10:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Bri 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just make sure that you two talk about this thoroughly first. Set guidelines, otherwise, one slip up during the 3some can cause some major friction between the two of you. Make sure you both are comfortable with it, and agree to what is ok, and not ok. But don't forget to have fun!
2007-01-12 10:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been in threesome, foursome and moresomes. It was fantastic. Playing with others requires a large amount of faith and trust in your partner though. If you are not careful little voices in your head could drive you crazy. If you have a secure and honest relationship with your husband it could go very well.
2007-01-12 10:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would hurt the relationship. I mean, honestly, do you want to see him with another woman? Would he be satisfied with just you in the end? Do you think he'd not stray? This doesn't qualify as cheating because you told him to do it, basiclly. But are you good enough for him? Do you think you would feel you are after this?
2007-01-12 10:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my boyfreind asked me to do the same i tried to ask whether i should do it on answers but my Q was removed. I am curious and do want to do it at some point but im scared of the impact it will have on us,some say its asking for trouble im curious to see what people have to say to.
2007-01-12 10:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzy_gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
M here and yes, it was fun for the night. I wouldn't want her to spend the weekend though.
2007-01-12 10:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard of this all the time, it is to be so empowering and a thing couples like to do. I think it is sick.
2007-01-12 10:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
We have had several. For my wife and I, it helped us to grow closer because we could step outside ourselves and see what each other liked.
2007-01-15 17:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me and the wife do it all the time. We love it, i think she enjoys it more than me
2007-01-12 10:13:30 · answer #11 · answered by Damon! 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋