Well i asked out the guy i have liked for ages and we are going to the cinema tomorrow afternoon. This guy is like one of my best friends and i am sure he likes me but i am so worried. I have broken up with my ex finace about 2 weeks ago (we broke up as i wasnt happy with him and also had feeling for this guy and it wasnt fair on him to stay - yes i feel bad!). Anyway i cant help thinking that he might hold back seen as i only broke up with my ex 2 weeks back. I really like him and want to have a great date as i hve liked him for years!!! We were kinda together for a bit when we were 15 and ive liked him since then! We were just too young to make it into anything serious. I like him loads and think he likes me too and i really want to kiss him. I am beside myself with fear!!! What should i do?!?!?
2007-01-12 02:02:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to worry because like you said, you think he likes you. And we know this is true because otherwise he wouldn't be going out with you in the first place! He's probably just as nervous as you are. Just be yourself. A lot of people screw up their date because they were nervous and weren't themselves. You'll be fine. Good luck!
2007-01-12 02:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by gingi_01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Since u know him already n recently u hve broken up with ur boy friend n ur feelings for him .It is recommended not to be inhurry/may be afterwords u develop some serious feelings about each other. It is better to be good friends than start some serious relations instantly; You can open up bit but not fully . Be a good listner than to convey ur feelings . What is love u must understand first. Ur kissing him in the first meeting is not love/ Think seriously about this step.Rest all is on ur judgement/depends on the circumstances or the enviorments around/ dont jump/think /give a serious thaught. Kissing is a natural intinct that might takes u little further/ better be ur own judge before u take any such step/God bless u my dear friend/I hve fallen un love with ur style/ Dont u think it is too early/ Hve u understood. R
2007-01-12 10:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just be yourself? Don't make it into anything big. Be yourself and let yourself go a little on the fact that you like him. Don't be nervous or tense. lol That's not why you've asked him out. You've asked him because you like him. Show him you're still his best friend. Show him you like him. It's ok to flirt with him a little. You're on a date! It's like a freakin' prerequisite to a date! haha Just be natural. Just be normal. Just be you.
2007-01-12 10:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he shows up to pick you up, giving him the biggest wet kiss you can. That should break the ice and get it out of the way. He will know that you like him. I say just go for it.
2007-01-12 10:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax... Don't put any pressure into this whole date go with the flow of things and you will feel if the moment is right to kiss him
2007-01-12 10:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe emphasize that you have moved on. Go ahead and kiss him, that is proof enough that you moved on. He'll get the idea that you like him and not worry about what's his name.
2007-01-12 10:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face your fear and tell him up front tell him you want to have a first kiss and he says no well no to bad so sad.
2007-01-12 10:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by darkstar20102010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋