See I was talkin to this guy I've had an on and off LDR with last night & I sent him a pic cuz he was at work & I was bored & i wrote underneath it "&& I get depressed when I wait for you..." & I thought it was kinda cute but then he sent a reply that said "well dont" & at first I thought it meant don't get depressed and then I started thinkin about the way I worded mine and then his & I don't know if he meant don't wait or don't get depressed... So I asked him & just like a stupid guy he goes "IDK" so can anyone tell me which one he meant?? I mean if he told me not to wait then it's important because since he lives so far away we told each other we'd wait for one another cuz soon we might be able to go to the same school- hopefully if he can get in =]]- but I'm confused and I know it's stupid but I need to know cuz recently I felt like he's hiding something from me or lying about something && I don't know what to do...
2007-01-12 02:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
&& I'm sorry if it seems like I'm reading to much into this but I guess it's just cuz I love this boy & he says he loves me & I just don't want him to break my heart anymore than he has in the past-LONG story
2007-01-12 02:12:54 · update #1
de4life34 that's a good suggestion if it wasn't for the fact that he trusts me utterly & completely & is not the jealous type at all... he doesn't ask all the annoying questions like where were you who were you with why were you out with other guys....
2007-01-12 02:19:09 · update #2
First off how old are you? If your young, then you'll get over it. Long term relations don't last long and if they do more power to them. It takes two people to make it work and I can imagine it would be hard but, that response from him makes him sound young and he probably said it because of all the dirt he is doing. He doesn't want to feel guilty about you waiting for him. Long distant relationships are just great booty calls cause you know they will be great when you get them. Don't wait for him or sweat him. Girls do this alot they get caught up in this crazy promise that we say (sorry for that). He might have meant it one day but today he might not feel the same. Do your own thing and get on with it. Make him wonder what you are doing and not the other way around.
2007-01-12 02:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him back and say, "Okay, I won't wait... jk." See what his response is. Then from now on, every time you talk to him, bring up that you told him not to wait until he clarifies.
2007-01-12 11:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re read your last line, trust your instincts. Good luck.
2007-01-12 10:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by burke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think he just doesn't want you to be depressed.
2007-01-12 10:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by byceroni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he meant don't get depressed and it sounds like you are over analysing
2007-01-12 10:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk.
I bet lots of girls like him.
2007-01-12 10:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by tlakkamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and send me the beautiful pic hun. richcottrill@hotmail.com
2007-01-12 10:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is over you. You need to get over him.
2007-01-12 10:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by bachlorette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋