Hes 41 and Im 24. He also about 6'4'' and Im only 5'0...But I always see him staring at me when Im not looking. Hes alsouses a very soft voice around me when he talks to me. He talks very confidently to others but not with me.
2007-01-12 01:51:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I just want a session of passionate sex with him. Its lust - not love.
2007-01-12 01:57:28 · update #1
I find him sexually attractive. So what? Its human attraction.
2007-01-12 02:02:02 · update #2
Dont you people see?! I am attracted to this man (sexually). =)
2007-01-12 02:08:02 · update #3
and all you jealous girs not wanting me to have fun with a married man - he has needs too you know? ;-)
2007-01-12 02:10:58 · update #4
life's as simple as you make it. If you fancy him, shag him
just make yourself happy....after all life's too short
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2016-04-22 13:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you cannot take critcism and constructive critique, you should not post questions. Secondly, you have the maturation of a 16 year old. You are thinking of yourself only, and like a 16 year old, you are flattered that an older man is giving you some looks. Third, if you do encourage and word gets out that you are sleeping with one of the other employees ( and people will know.... oh, yes, there will be talk !!! ), expect three things to happen: you will be the one to lose your job, the other employees will laugh behind your back, and his wife will come after you with a meat cleaver. Now, pull up your big girl panties, and stop being selfish and immature. You are 24 !!!! What the hell is wrong with you ????
2007-01-12 04:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
[quote = Darren E]Hey,......well, hard to say. There are two options, he likes you or your doing something wrong that really bugs him. If he's married, it's a safe guess that he doesn't but the only way to see is to........ hook him up to a lie detector, j/k! Just confront him or your boss and get the situation figured out![/quote]
I agree with Darren E for the most part here.
However, I would say there's [i]three[/i] possibilites:
Darren E's two
1)He likes you
2) You're really bugging him
and my own one.
3) He doesn't realize he's staring.
I notice you said he's confident with others.
Now, is he confident and good at it or confident but rather socially clueless?
If its the latter, you might want to tell him he's doing it straight out. You don't have to insult him but tell him explicitly.
In this case, you do not want to rely on non-verbal cues or other implicit clues.
Try subtly observing him and see which of those patterns is displayed.
Plus, pay more attention in a conference or something where there's a conversation going on where lots are contruibitining, including you, to his voice, it might be that he speaks softly all the time and you only notice it when he talks to you because you're a bit of a loudmouth...maybe?
2007-01-12 04:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by alienwhoseshiplandedonearth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how can you see someone staring when you're not looking?
And if you think the guy is staring at you - maybe he is - because YOU are probably staring at HIM - and making him damn uncomfortable in the bargain! Ditto for the soft voice - he probably thinks he has to treat you gently or you'll blow your fuse and try to sexually molest him in public. You probably scare the hell out of him....kinda like a stalker!
You sound obssessed by the guy. There's nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to a guy - but keep things in perspective, please!
If you do try to seduce him, and he allows himself to be seduced, then I feel sorry for HIM and not for YOU - you're already sad....it's his family relationships that will suffer.
I mean, a guy is only human right? So if you keep pushing yourself up in his face, don't be surprised if he takes what you're offering - and then treats you like a whore. For his sake and that of his family, I hope he tells you where to step off!!!
As for bringing HIS needs into question - I think you're a bit delusional...you're confusing YOUR sexual desires with HIS, unless he has specifically told you that he's lusting for you! if he really had "needs" that his wife can't take care of, I'm sure he could give himself a hand instead of relying on you - there's nothing illegal about wanking!!
If your brand of morality can withstand adultery, then by all means DO try to seduce this guy. You're both adults, and therefore personally responsible for whatever decisions you both decide to take. You're going to do what you want to in any case, so why bother with the opinion of the rest of the world? Or do you want validation?
One thing I can say for you is that you don't seem to need any help in the ego department.... Either that, or you're suffering from delusions of grandeur!
And finally, I'm sure you weren't hired to pose.... so get your eyes off the guy's crotch and get back to work!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-12 03:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by vdrt 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
OH they all go funny at 40. It may be that he just isn't used to talking to young women of course. Although it sounds a bit creepy. Anyone staring at you is creepy. Next time he does it ask him if you have a bogey or something on your nose. Bring everything out into the light. Creepy people don't like it innit
Flippin eck I just read the other stuff you put. That you actually want this man. Well you're a custard tart innit. Leave him alone and don't be the cause of trouble in his family you floosie.
2007-01-12 01:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by : 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy and we often have a bad habit of wanting what we can't have. He's just lusting.......... I wouldn't do anything for the time being, because he doesn't seem to be harassing you or invading your perrsonal space. But if the problem persists or gets worse I would recommend confronting him. If that would creep you out too much talk to your boss instead. Explain the situation and he will be obligated to do something.
Well now that I've seen the aditional details it seems you are the one who should stay away from him!
2007-01-12 02:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Firefox88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine youself another 15 years from now, married and that was your husband acting that way towards a girl half his age, how would you feel about it?
Go find a guy that's single and your age - I'm sure there's lots of them out there. Nothing wrong with feeling flattered by someone thinking you're attractive, but it doesn't mean you need to contribute to his poor choices in his marriage.
2007-01-13 03:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on how many times in the past 6 months that you've asked numerous people if you should just go sleep with this "man"...you've probably already done it and are just looking for someone to put your conscience at rest. I think it's despicable! You ARE indeed a floosy. You NEED to get a life. Now STOP asking if you should do the nasty with someone that's freakishly tall and OLD! (No offence to people that are over 6' and over 40...I'm 5'1" and under 25, so tall is tall and old is old...) :)
2007-01-12 03:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by MnMsRGood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're young, so keep this in mind...go ahead and have the "passionate sex" with him, if you like, but Karma is a b****. Everything you do WILL come back on you, 10 fold.
So yes, you can sleep with this horny married guy (most married guys are horny and sometimes seek out different booty), but one day, you may get married and don't say nothing when your husband tells you that he's going fishing....every Saturday....
2007-01-12 03:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just obsessed with your freakishly large breasts on your so small frame...he is afraid of talking confidently around them because they might explode...
It is a Freud thing...get over yourself
If you are really interested, asking him if he knows what 'friends with benefits' means...if not then tell him...then ask if he would ever do something like that. If he says no he wouldn't, then drop your fantasy
2007-01-12 02:45:52 · answer #11 · answered by Gotta Question 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋