almost ten months she stopped having sexual contacts and she said she does not want physical relationship with me and she like to be a friend and said I don't want you to think that I have another person in her life. she said I had relationships before me and everything has a beginning and an end sometimes I get emotional and askher if thereis anything that I can doto make itbetter she responds backthat I can not get it. in public places she actes as if we are lovers, but after that she actes differently, please I need help to solve the puzzle, I loved her and showed her that but I am still can not get. Thanks in advance.
2007-01-12 01:48:46 · 4 answers · asked by Faith52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doesn't sound like love. Sounds like you want some butt. I would advice you to respect her decision and just be friends. If you cannot be friends tell her and move on.
2007-01-12 01:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That's a pretty terrible situation.
You can't make someone feel something for you that they simply don't feel. And it's true that people's feelings change all the time.
Sometimes, couples take a break from sex; certain partners just aren't in the mood.
But if this girl has told you that she no longer wants a sexual relationship with you, then you need to respect her wishes and step back. Maybe you shouldn't even see her anymore.
It's not fair of her to lead you on in public, and you should tell her as much.
My only suggestion to you is to tell her how you feel. Tell her that you still love her and that you still want to be in a relationship. If she doesn't feel the same way, then it's time for you to find a girl who DOES want to be with you. And wants to have mad, hot sex with you.
You deserve it.
2007-01-12 09:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jem! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say, I feel this is her way of trying to break up with you. You shouldn't even worry about that because, like she said, everything has a beginning and an end. "There are people who can walk away from you. People leave you cause they are not joined to you, and you can't make them stay." The bible says; "They came from us that it might manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us." (1 John 2:19) God wants her to go cause I believe he has something greater in store for you.
Just play everything cool. Do all the things gentlemen would do, and if she leaves, remember this scripture, and message.
Wishing you the best of luck =) KEEP THE FAITH!
2007-01-12 10:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with the nature of the relationship, then you need to end things. Why make yourself miserable?
2007-01-12 09:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋