I weight about 140 and I need to lose about 20 or 25lbs. But My sister says i shouldn't even care because I will not be any prettier. She says my face is too freckly and they will not go away with weight loss. Do you think most women (i am speaking of women losing only some weight, not going from 300 to 120) look prettier after weight loss, or if you are ugly when your fat you will be ugly and skinny if you lose weight?
2007-01-12 01:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by susan9 3 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
I really can spell...........lose weight, that is.
2007-01-12 01:46:39 · update #1
I am 5'5".
2007-01-12 01:55:18 · update #2
Don't listen to your sister. Sometimes I think one of the main things siblings are here on this earth for is to torture each other. My sisters used to call me names, too.
Usually when someone is mean to you, and yes, she is being very mean to you, it's just a sign of their own insecurities. She insults you because she is uncomfortable with herself.
Everyone is different and there is no "mold" for beauty. Just be yourself and try not to pay too much mind to what others say. All your life there will be people trying to tear you down "haters". The trick to a happy life is learning to ignore them and feel good in your own skin no matter what it looks like.
2007-01-12 01:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by that dead girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight loss will make your face thinner which for someone like me, I have a round full face if I gain a pound I look like Charlie Brown not pretty it helps. As for you I think your sister is just being a nasty sis and trying to hurt your feeling freckles are adorable I wish I still had some sis is probably just jealous of you
2007-01-12 01:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
silly question. how tall are you? are you sure it's healthy to lose 20 lbs at your current weight!!?! 140 is not THAT much--at least not enough to want to lose 25 pounds! (believe it or not) General rule of thumb: start at 100, and add 5 pounds for every inch you are over 5 feet. So if you're 5'5'', the lowest you should weigh is 125. Obviously people are different and this is extremely general. but if you're looking for a yardstick, there it is!
2007-01-12 01:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.that sounded funny.anyway freckles are beautiful and a lot of men love them and prefer them......if its just 20 pounds...as long as you arent already at a healthy weight...than yes 20 pounds loss will make u look better........... but if at 140...youre just perfect... you know... healthy curves .... you might look worse
my whole klife i was naturally at a weight of 125-135 and im 5'9...on my body type that was too thin/skinny...... but I couldnt gain..... when I finally gained just by nature... I went up to 145..... and wowwwww I got asked out and more attention then than ever before!
just work out for tone.... and lose just ten pounds..... or feel your clothes fit better and not look at the scale..because most people GAIN ten pounds...when they get muscle:)...yet clothes are looser!!!
looking good is feeling healthy.
you look good when you find you can do more...like lift more grocery bags with ease...or run faster/longer.... or feel very flexible from a alot of stretching...... than u naturally look better..your eyes will sparkle more and such...thats a fact
2007-01-12 01:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by safarlsun33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not necisarily your physical apearence but you would probably become prittier inside. not just becuase you lost wieght, but becuase when people loose weight, they have much more confidence in themselves and a higher self esteem than before. and thats what counts the most!
its like saying if a ugly guy were to have a nice body, would this make him better looking? if you put a bag over his head... :)
but dont listen to your sister she obviously isnt really helping very much. if you feel that you need to loose weight, then do it. youll be proud of yourself!
take care!
2007-01-12 01:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty lies in the eyes of the person who sees it;.Eat nourishing food with plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables being part of it. Chew each morsel at least 32 times. This will activate signal to the brain as soon as u have had enough. Besides this change in eating style, take regular light exercises and brisk walks every day. U will be able to gain/shed all extra weight gracefully and in a reasonable time span.
2007-01-12 01:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer all massive women human beings opt to be fat, yet they different than that they are and artwork with what they have. human beings make it appear as if dropping weight is something that happens speedy and positively. dropping weight is a conflict that normally seems no longer properly well worth the heartache and unhappiness. purely in view which you have a concern with your human beings weight, does no longer advise that she does. If she likes herself the way she is, settle for her. There are constantly going to be adult males that like massive women human beings and could think of that she's suitable the way she is. dropping weight could make her greater bodily appealing to you, yet she should not be dropping weight to thrill you besides. human beings constantly say that dropping weight is nice on your well-being, and that i completely agree, yet there are particularly some skinny diabetic persons interior the international as properly. There are purely as many skinny human beings going to McDonalds and Burger King as there are fat human beings. certainly all and sundry's physique purely approaches issues in yet otherwise. whilst your chum comes to a decision what she desires to do approximately her weight, she'll exchange it. additionally, how do you realize what she'll appear as if if she looses weight? some human beings drop some pounds and their pores and skin sags. and a few human beings drop some pounds and lose a number of their best assests (**** and @ss). I hate it whilst human beings say "You tremendously to be a huge woman" like massive human beings can't be tremendously, chuffed and get a guy to love them.
2016-10-07 01:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by grumney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. what does 300 to 120 have to do with anything? it isnt fat that makes your looks its personality etc... get over the whole weight thing. i am sure you are beautiful. some of the most beautiful women in the world are either very heavy or very thin. weight has no influence on beauty
2007-01-12 01:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by private n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u wo look pretty when u loose weight. im 5'3 and i weight 135 and i want to lose 20 pounds. i still look good but i remember i year ago i was in 117 and i looked so freaking good. sometimes when i look at my pics i get depresed cuz i was so much cuter. i still im but i want to be beautiful like i used to be. if u think u will look better try it. good luck...
2007-01-12 01:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
chew calorie free gum for 9 hours
2016-04-21 05:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋