Deep down I knew he wasn’t the one, even though I dumped him but I still loved him and I still do. The moment I knew it was over, I thought I was strong. I was sure I was going to get by without him. I had hurled accusations and cell phones at each other. I had cried, talked, despaired and packed away all my photos and CDs while in a daze. I always told myself I deserved better. Within those few days, I’ve become insecure and despondent. I cried over my dinners for one and watched re-runs at 3am because I couldn’t sleep without him. I felt like I was falling apart and worry how I’d ever get through this.
I tried to cheer up myself, I went out partying, hanging out with friends, flirting and occupying myself with my work. But yet, I still sing his songs.
He’s in fact never given up on me. he still looks me up and tries to win me back. I love him but I can’t forgive him.
2007-01-12 01:21:17 · 4 answers · asked by Melrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it takes time to forget him. I know I can move on.
2007-01-12 01:21:54 · update #1
your doing great! keep doing what your doing.
human folly is to think that we should 'feel', 'do', 'think' or 'have' some other thing then we currently are 'feeling', 'doing', 'thinking' or 'having'.
Ithis goes against the design of the mind which stamps everything with "THIS SHOULDN'T BE" but you are really in a great place.
"I know it takes time to forget him. I know I can move on." < i take issue with this! This approach will keep you stuck faster and harder then anything else there is.
2007-01-12 04:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by lowroad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take some time, remember why you are at this point. Do something nice for yourself or for someone else. Pamper yourself, read a good inspiring book and allow yourself time. Matters of the heart isn't easy to deal with when someone has hurt you. You'll get over it, you'll meet someone who will be all about you and you only. Focus on what's more important, "self."
2007-01-12 09:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cried reading your question, no kidding. it was so touching and just well described every girl's feeling when they're heart-broken.
I used to be like this too when i just got dumped by my first bf, but i moved on. i believe you can do it too. don't worry. you sound like a very intelligent woman (great profile), i'm sure you can handle it.
and yes, you are letting go...
2007-01-13 10:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on~~~you will always feel this way you need a better start and love is about finding your best friend. When this happens you will feel nothing but sure and in love.
2007-01-12 09:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by afall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋