he been going through some stuff and he said i was all he has and that he is lost without me.but the past two days he is distant and almost cold.
2007-01-12 01:19:35 · 17 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-12 01:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two days isn't a very long time, perhaps you should wait longer. The relationship doens't sound very strong will it'll fail simply based on a gut feeling. I suggest talking to him if you want a future with him that is. If you're so/so about the future and who he is, then dump him.
2007-01-12 01:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gut feelings get you into trouble.
I would wait for some time before breaking off a relationship due to gut feeling.
Maybe he is busy or stressed. Give him a chance !
2007-01-12 01:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by JDGuru at work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....long distance relationships can not go on forever.Is the distance temporary or does he permanently live in another country?If it is permanent you really can not expect it to last.I am sorry you are hurting,but it is best to get the pain over with ,and deal realistically with the situation.
2007-01-12 01:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again. You can not have a bf in another country. Did you meet him on a dateline service and you two thought to pair up? Unless he is overseas for a couple of weeks on business, drop him.
2007-01-12 01:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Big C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you have insecurity problems if you going to spy on your boyfriend. This is no relationship if you cant trust him. You need to build your self-esteem or if not you will eventually become psychotic full of anger, rage and jealousy.
2007-01-12 01:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be stress. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt. You gut could be way off base.
2007-01-12 01:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly what happened when I founf out my ex was seeing someone else. The way I confronted it was by going in his phone records and making callsand hefinally gotaround to admitting. I know you can't check on him but it sounds fishy.
2007-01-12 01:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes having a hard time but if you have a gut feeling dont come across to hard that you think hes been cheating on you other wise he might take it harsly just be gentle and confront him
2007-01-12 01:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by lizzle sizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any reason is enough of a reason to move on when in a relationship. No one is sitting around with a gun looking to shot peeps for break up.
The only reason to stay in a relationship is happiness. If you are not happy...leave.
2007-01-12 01:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime i have a gut feeling 98% of the time it turns out to be true
2007-01-12 01:22:15 · answer #11 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋