Wouldn't it be too early to invite her to a cinema if I only know her for a week?

Question

I was hired to a company just about two weeks ago where I met a beautiful girl just about a weeks ago. I find her very sympathetic, even though we don't meet often during the course fo the day, as for she works in another sector of teh building where I don't have permission to enter. We had a few brief (very brief) conversations together, but nut much. Now that the weekend is coming, I thought to invite her to a cinema but I'm afraid it would be too early to do so, as for we don't really know each other well enough. I don't want to seem to be pushy, nor do I want to appear as someone who REALLY REALLY REALLY wants to approach her in a romantic way. Do you also think it might he too early for such a friendly invitation? If so, in what way could I approach her-as a friend?

Answer 1

never hurts to ask...in the appropriate way.

Answer 2

Yes, it is to early to take her out to the movies. Just ask her out to coffee or something like that. It might sound lame, but you would get to know her a lot better. In a cinema, you wouldn't talk because of the movie, unless you just make out the entire time, which it is a bit early for that too.

Answer 3

Well since you don't wanna come off as pushy or approach her in a romantic way...I would just invite a group to the movies. So that way she doesn't think anything of your invitation. And hopefully you will be able to get to know her.

Answer 4

If you bump into her today why not ask her casually about her plans for the weekend..if she's free you should say something like "oh i was going to go to the cinema, hey you should come along if you're not doing anything" then smile. make it seem friendly, not too pushy. test the water. she might not be able to go but you can gauge her reaction for future, more romantic invitations

good luck!

Answer 5

need to establish a introduction conversation and this usually is the best to do: have casual lunch. Get to know who she is and let her know who you are. if it sounds positive like she really interested in you then you can move the conversation to talk about each other's interest. if you feel the right time to pop the conversations about movies and dvd's then ask her what her favourite genre...eg...then move conversation about "hmm wonder what type of movies are out" "wonder if any good ones." "have you seen it yet" "i feel like going to the cinema" "hey you interested. we can catch a movie" dadadadddadaa

but this is like after having few lunchs

Answer 6

sounds like a great idea if she likes u she like u she ain't go in 2 get 2 knw u that well as u work in different parts so i think the longer u wait it will be more harder so i think u should go 4 it what u got 2 loose only cinema just get on and have fun xx

Answer 7

Never a movie on the first date. Invite her for lunch to see if the chemistry if there. You can not talk in the movie.

Answer 8

It not to early. Start up a conversation on a movie that you want to take her to see if she is interested in the movie then casually ask her if she wants to come with you

Answer 9

Too early, get to know her a little first. Tricky situation at work, be careful. Take your time and give it a month before you ask her out, you don't want to seem to desperate.

Answer 10

well instead of trying in a romantic way just ask her as a friend and see if you have anything in common but it sounds great to invite her. ok give it a try a be confident

Answer 11

I don't understand why you have waited so long. Obviously you are fat, have no balls, and have been rejected many times. Just ask her out she won't think its weird like 95% of the rest of the population doesn't.