Now i have ur attention MAINLY the LADS can u please help me wiv my Dilema
Me and this girl were really getting along the whole of dis week and yesterday i tried to call her and she was diverting me calls i called her twice and the day before i called her and she told me she had a cold so i texted her the day i called her twice asking if she was ok and why she wasnt picking up my calls and she said she was sick and sleeping so i tried to call her about 45 mins ago and she diverted my calls and i aint even done nuffin wrong for christ sake my names cassanova duuuh but no advice is 2 little co please HELP !!!!
2007-01-12 00:36:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i only called her 4 times all the tyme she calls me im not no clingy bastard and i havent upset her
2007-01-12 00:42:57 · update #1
sounds loke you are goosed
try phoning Abdul Kalam' on 0191516000 and ask for a curry and a special brew delivered by red rum
2007-01-12 00:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by john g 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh for god sake man get a life and leave the girl alone!!! ever thought she may actually be sick and want some time alone!!! anyway in situations like this i always try to put the shoe on the other foot and think what i would do if someone was constantly calling and texting! its nice to wait for an answer before you text again its called the art of conversation!!!!
2007-01-12 01:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by scuba girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think regardless of whether she initially diverted your calls because she was going off you, or was actually genuinely sick, by now she will definitely have gone off you anyway. That sort of obsessive phoning would put any girl off a guy!
I agree with the other post about deleting her number and if she gets in touch great but forget about it in the meantime.
2007-01-12 00:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly your Casanova ways end with the name. Have you ever noticed that diamonds are little hard stones that shine in light - nothing too fancy. Yet they are highly sought after and fetch loads of money. You know why? Because they are RARE and scarce. Yes, if you are calling this chic every bloody second you are reducing your value in her eyes. What you are telling indirectly is:
I adore you, would do anything for you, I will kiss your *** till you like me.
Hardly something that will drive a chick wild. What you need to do is call less. But you also desperately need to visit this site and go thru it ten times - otherwise there is no hope for you http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/
2007-01-12 00:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The poor girl is ill, give her a break! I know when I'm not well I just like to be left alone and she's obviously the same. Everything is probably fine but if you carry on the way you are you'll look insecure and scare her off - hold back a bit.
2007-01-12 00:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt wana know and doesnt have the courage or respect to tell you straight, so why in this world would you want to chase n bother her for pete sake!! my missus said av u ever fort the answer to yr question lies in yr name 'cassanova' do you realise a cassanova is a word for a man that hides how rubbish in bed he is they play the field constantly,lies has no respect for women in general and makes the choice to NEVER settle down it really really isnt a good start esp as girls are quick to let other girls no wot yr all about (most of us av actually got u sussed just by that name!!). so if this is just yr username- Change it and b quick about it, and if this unfortunatley is yr true name tell yr mum you need £50 to change yr name by depol!!!???? How about Melvin it wld prob giv u one hundred percent better chance with the ladies???!!!!! haha
2007-01-12 19:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by katies huni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her and say u think u need to talk or leave it till she gets intouch with u dont call her bk u dnt want to look like a stalker what ever the issue im sure it will work out let her ring u in her own time
2007-01-12 00:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by iluvsme75 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might not be feeling it anymore to be honest. I do that when I ain feelin sumone, just stop callin her cause obviously like me she cant gather enough guts to let u no that she aint feeling it.....there are bare gals out there who would love sumone to talk to so dont get stuck with her move on and shell be the looser at the end of the day....
Good Luck
2007-01-12 00:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mate, there is nothing less appealing than a guy who WON@T STOP CALLING! Delete her number out of your phone so you are not tempted, remember the last three digits so you know when she calls you, eventually. If she ever does now after you have made yourself way too available..........girls like a bit of a challenge matey.
2007-01-12 00:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha! from a womens point of veiw... number 1 she could actually be sick!! think of that she mite want some peace and quiet. number 2 maybe she just wants to cool things for a bit. us girls like some alone time to pamper etc or maybe b with the girls.
my advice would be to leave her alone she'll come to u when shes good and ready. :)
2007-01-12 00:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a girls point of view STOP CALLING N TXTING HER!!!!!! your coming ova 2 in ya face.... Wait till she contacts you.. If shes intrested she'll be in touch, dont mean to sound horrid but maybe shes decided egainst the idea n maybe doesnt want 2 hurt you feelings,,, leave her be..!!! Stop giving her the controll,maybe give it a couple of days...
2007-01-12 00:50:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋