men 50 plus only please?

Question

do you still get aroused by just looking at someone undressing or being touched ? , he is on medication and cant keep it up and im pretty sure thats the problem but what if he just isnt attracted to me any more ? what to do ? or say ?

Answer 1

Honey, I wanted to answer this to assure you, even though I am not a man .. I am a woman with same situation.

Unless you have evidence otherwise (the way he treats you, etc.) rest assure that he still finds you attractive!!

My hubby has low testosterone, and ED from high blood pressure and other health problems. He does not have a very high arousal or sexual desire .. but he still very much enjoys looking .... including at me, even though I too am well past my prime and in my mind not much to look at.

It is important to encourage him, not be sexually demanding (that is different than enjoying sex and still expecting it). And explain to him that you need to be assured that he still finds you attractive .. and then just accept it!

email me if you would like.

Answer 2

you are asking the wrong people dear lady, ASK HIM !!!!!!!!! open/honest communication sheds light on even the darkest terrain. you also have a choice to make. you can adopt the " I am what I am so take it or leave it " attitude or you can determine through "COMMUNICATION" which additives kick his motor into high performance. The old saying is that variety is the spice of life. to men in their 50's variety rarely means some one else, most times it means transforming the same old - same old into the unexpected. only dogs flourish on eating the same brand of food day after day. lose a few pounds, change your hair, buy a sexy outfit, YOU take HIM out for a night on the town. in other words, SEDUCE him. it sounds like you have nothing to lose by trying something different. good luck.

Answer 3

Yes, we do, but I wouldn't worry about it. Really, as people get older, sex should become less important.