my boyfriend and i are long time together about 4 years, but his family do not like me becaus i am deaf and mute girl. i become pregnant about 9th about to birth a baby. my boyfriend wants to force me to abort it now, i told him why? he begins to beat me a lot and even hits my prenant, i feel very painful lot and cry a lot. my boyfriend becomes afraid because he thinks i am going to die, he taks me to hospital and birth a beautiful boy baby. i found out he forces me because he will go about to marry another woman on 3 february.
i am shocking but i do not know what happen the forward he does for my baby because i have no job to care my baby. i come to his parents to show them their grandson, they say my baby must stay with them and send me away.
i feel very painful and what will i do now and forward???please help me solution what do you think???
2007-01-12 00:14:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well I'm afraid it sounds like you shouldn't be with him, if he can hurt you like that, then hes not a real man, remind him and his family that its your baby and not theirs, if they wanna help with his up bringing then they can but don't let them take him, otherwise chances are you wont she him again.
2007-01-12 00:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by x_rachie_bx 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I almost hope that this story isn't true! You don't say where you live or where you are from. How could they send you away? Are you an immigrant? Sorry about the questions, I'm just trying to get a better understanding of who you can speak to. Firstly, I would recommend speaking to somebody at the hospital where you gave birth to your baby and seeing if you can speak to a post natal counsellor or someone similar. Possibly they can put you in touch with a women's help service and you could look into protection.
This man sounds disgraceful and does not deserve anything from you. His parents solutions are also obscene and have no place in this century! YOu need to be strong for your baby and yourself. If there is nobody at the hospital you can speak to then you need to consider going to the police and either having him charged and/or going into protective custody (if thats an option). Please look after yourself and your baby and take some action and get away from this man. I feel sorry for the woman who is marrying him and will have to also learn what he is like.
Good luck *big hugs*
Angie xx
2007-01-12 00:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Angie Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about your old boyfriend. He is not good for you. He obviously does not care about you or your child. I don't know where you live, but you should file police charges against him for endangering the life of you and your baby....also, look for organizations, churches, or government services to help you leave your boyfriend and find a job.
2007-01-12 00:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as i understood you love your baby and you don't want to be separated. It that is the case then you need to stand on your feet. Get a job. Contact your family. Forget you ex boyfriend in my opinion he is not a real man since he does what his parents want.
2007-01-12 00:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is nothing wrong with going out to get a job the baby's grandparents dont have any right to keep the baby so if u really want ur baby to be with u then i would take his grandparents to court
2007-01-12 01:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by santa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm! thats called harrasment...dear...dump his *** and ummm CALL THE POLICE...dont abort the child...its not worth losing a life because he doesnt want the kid...a child is an amazing part of the world...if you have a brother or sister, think about if your mom had an abortion...how would you feel.....
2007-01-12 00:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tammi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang with me for a couple of days. I'll show you how to be aggressive.
2007-01-12 00:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋