i have been abused when i was betwen 4 and 6,
2007-01-11 23:55:02 · 8 answers · asked by ESTER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
being a virgin is a big deal to a women most men now a days really don't care. Being molested does not mean that you are not a virgin it depends on how far the bastard forced you to go. As for experiance i was molested and my husband knew about it because i tell him everything and it did not matter to him because it was not my fault and we have been married for 12 years. So don't let not being a virgin bother you because you will find a man that will accept you and help you with what has happened to you when you were young.
2007-01-12 00:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the concient issue is a big deal ... I think that in cases of rape or abuse you get a free pass...... You should be able to choose the person with whome you have you first experence with. ...... a experience thats forced on you doesnt count toward the virginity issue.
2007-01-12 00:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that morally you are most definitely a virgin. You're value goes way beyond the evil actions of others.
2007-01-12 00:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by ctrl-alt-delete 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even if you were sexually abused it really wasn't in your consent so you could techincally still think your a virgin until to willingy "give it up" but if you really wanna know then go a gyno or a doctor explain your situation and ask them if they can do a test to see if your still a virgin
2007-01-12 00:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We can't really know.
The definition of a virgin is someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse, as in the physical joining of the... you know what. Unless you can recall any memories of that then we cannot tell you. Try hypnosis in trying to remember.
2007-01-12 00:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply visit a doctor (gynaecologist).
2007-01-12 00:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is being a virgin that important???
2007-01-11 23:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a very hard one to answer. sorry i cant help
2007-01-12 00:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋