my new date after the fallout with my former said we can't have sex till after marriage cos she is a virgin at 28. what should i do cos iam starving and she will be ready 4 marriage in Dec 07.
what should i do cos it should weired to me.
i havenot seen a pants ever and this is 6mnths now!!
2007-01-11 23:52:35 · 16 answers · asked by ineem20012005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u have a hand.....use it.
2007-01-15 01:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. The question is do your really want to marry her? or are you just marrying her so that you can have sex? if you really love her and want to get married then I guess you will wait, but just make sure its for the right reason.
you never know after a while, and if the circumstances are correct then she might eventually change her mind - after all women have need too.
may be there is another way she can satisfy you with out actually having penetrative intercourse?
2007-01-12 00:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by The Dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love and want to marry her, have a tank with a 'w' in it. Dec 07 sounds like it will hit a 1000 on the Richter scale!!
2007-01-11 23:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by The Cat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god that is a tuffy!! i no wot u men r like about waiting i said to my 1st i wud make him wait 6months at least but i lasted 3.
y does she feel she has to wait? been hurt in past, religion?
have u asked?
if religion i believe that if u have chosen to get married you must honour her beliefs, if for another reason then maybe talking about it and finding out wot she wants.
is a tuffy, hope helped a bit. x
below is link maybe you should check it out! they say abstinence works but sometimes can also break people.
2007-01-12 00:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to marry her, respect her decision and find other ways to occupy your mind ( no I do not condone cheating).
Remember this; you will be the only man who's ever been there and that is extremely rare these days.
2007-01-12 00:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's face it mate...If she's said no sex before marriage then that's how its going to be. However you don't have to have sex to enjoy each other physically.
2007-01-15 08:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chill_Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begin a new and intimate relationship with your hand or dump her and get somebody who is "real". If she is maintaining virginity at 28 it seems to me she is using it has a "hook" to get married.
2007-01-11 23:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by PhD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like what you need is Pamela Handerson...give her a call on
0800-MASTERBATION
Sorry to be crude, just dont cheat - she´ll be blimmin´brilliant when you do do it...
But there are herbies and stuff to...uh...decrease the "need" of sex.
2007-01-11 23:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beat you, been longer without it. Hey, I'm selling a car, you wanna buy it...sorry, no test drive until after you've signed the papers......
2007-01-11 23:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if your really lusting, you could cheat on her and suffer the consequences, or you could pleasure yourself
or, if you dont love her enough to wait (even though for most sex-thriving men, its hard) get another girlfriend whos willing to have sex
2007-01-11 23:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just hang on... respect to what she wants...when u c a pants again on dec, it would be a greatest gift 4 u... ha!
2007-01-12 00:00:20 · answer #11 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋