I must agree with some of you! I think it will have a negative effect on us in the long run! However, she keeps bringing it up! She wants to watch me with another woman, and also, she says that, she can't stop thinking about, her and another woman being, and stimulating me. I do think this is very erotic, yet concerened! Anyone experience this? What are the (+/-)? She is a very erotic gal! It is not a cheating issue , Help?
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2007-01-11 23:30:47 · 5 answers · asked by Spencer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but the only help you can get is from Jesus Christ.
2007-01-11 23:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem if you find someone who is willing and understands what are the boundaries beforehand. It really depends who you choose to participate with you and what are the terms involved,
I think, the best way to go about it, strangely as it sounds, is find a professional escort who specializes in couples, because they will be attractive and have the know how and it's kind of like hiring a masseuse. If you choose a friend, someone you know and interact with on a regular social basis, there might be awkwardness later. With a pro, you pay, you lay, she's out, you had you experience and no guilt involved, or long term implications. Make sure you tell the escort in ADVANCE what you expect them to LOOK LIKE and what you expect from them, if that is what you choose. If it's someone you know, again, ease into things, and always practise safe sex.
Hope I have been of assistance, good luck.
2007-01-12 07:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine went through this with his wife. He said at first it was great with two women. But after a while it was the two women on each other and he was left out in the cold. They ended in divorce. Yes, I think it will have negative effects on you both.
2007-01-12 07:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by capnemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both have to be very mature ... actually all involved have to be very mature. It can work and has in many instances. The key is the strength and nature of your own relationship with each other and how you make it clear to the 3rd or 4th party you invite in.
2007-01-12 07:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by PhD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a sick disgusting person. both of you are going to burn and rot in the bowels of hell for ur evil sins. the filth and whores of you will burn away for all eternity! my religion says spread kindness and love not filth whores and infidels!! i wish i could kill you all! cold blooded murder you filthy creatures who FORCE me to read your questions and FORCE me to answer them! i should report you but satan will have his way with you in time you heathen
2007-01-12 07:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by foodle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋