2007-01-11 22:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by stephanie_abbas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time they wana have sex,say no and see how he reacts!If he truly loves you,then he would understand.If he gets all grumpy and stuff then that will tell you one thing!
2007-01-11 22:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy just wants to sleep with a girl, he's likely to want to hurry that from the start, a guy like that usually never sticks around long; If a girl doesn't give into his plans, he'll just give up and go for someone easy.
Some players might start saying that you're too prim or whatever; to make you feel bad just because you said no (as his last attempt to get you to change your mind) But honestly, would a guy that loves a girl for real, force sex if she isn't ready or sure? The answer to that should be always no. If he really cares he'd stick around.
2007-01-11 23:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, I think that love or true loves takes maturity. Because it is not always a wonderful thing and it takes maturity to know that and to love someone unconditionally.
I guess to answer your question, you may not if he loves you if the love came before the sex. Also what made you ask this question? Sometimes YOUR heart can tell you the answer but then again love can be blind. But in summary maturity.
2007-01-11 22:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by sunneybear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if sex was taken out of the equation if he would want you as a friend. If he says "Yes.", then you have to ask yourself if you would be hurt if he was to have sex with someone other than you, after you've taken sex with you off the table...you can't have it both ways!
2007-01-11 22:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ask for a sexual relationship tell him you want to wait until your ready. If he shows compassion and respect then he actually does care for you. If he seems stressed out and fustrated hes not after your heart. Good Luck!
2007-01-11 22:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop the sex for a while. focus on other parts of your relationship with your mate. if he seems more aggravated than interested when you do this its probably a sexual thing. although unless you trust the person you're with, this may be a question you wonder about for a while b/c its easy to say i love you...much harder to show it. i think love doesnt exist without trust...if you're on here asking us about it the trust factor probably isnt as strong as it should be babe.
2007-01-11 22:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by king.8307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the little things, if its just a few mins of cuddling and then wam bam.,,,, and u 2 go about your lives. Its probably friends with bennifits.... it he does sweet things for you, then its hard to tell.... If your not sure tell him flat out.. idk what the heck is going on here.. are we just having sex or workin on a relationship... I need to make sure that we are on the same page... and if he says relationship.. tell him Honestly, I asked because I cant tell~ You do or dont do these things and it confuses me!!
Best of luck
2007-01-11 22:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to tell if you love them.
Men would be so pathetic when they just want to get you to bed that it's boosts our egos and make us capituate.
You can tell only AFTER having sex and observing his behavior.
2007-01-11 22:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times have you turned him down for sex? If it has been like 300 hundred times and he still hangs around then its love.
2007-01-11 22:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Angel, some of us are really true romantics & the way you tell is, we don`t try & get into your knickers a.s.a.p we are interested in the person & the wider picture not the short term plan.
2007-01-11 22:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋