Its a semi blind date, we know what each other looks like, we have spoken on the phone, spent hours chatting online, have loads n loads n common, but we're going on our 1st date 2morro, any tips?
2007-01-11 22:43:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Smell really nice <---Girls love a guy who wears cologne!
2. Dress realyl sophisticated!
3. Shave and do your hair
4. Talk! <---Awkward silences are the worst!
5. Compliment on how nice she looks
6. Look her in the eyes when your talking to her
7. Act or be interested in what she is saying
8.Dont take her to the movies! How are you supposed to get to know each other??
9. Smile at her
10.Be honest. If your not feeling her at all then tell her Honesty is the best key! Dont lead her on either!
2007-01-11 23:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by 88776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere first for a drink or a coffee - have a chat and get to know each other on a personal basis - then if you feel that conversation is flowing freely and easily you can suggest going for a bite to eat maybe?
Just be yourself - remember its the anonomous you shes taken a shine to - so dont act any differently in person.
If conversation goes slack or awkward at any stage bring up one of the things you do share in common and keep the convo flowing.
Be mannerly and gentlemanly!
Best of luck xx
2007-01-11 22:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel comfortable in your company, by not trying to get too close too fast : That can be a big turn-off to any decent girl.
...Ask her first, what she'd like to have, instead of ordering whatever you like for both of you. She will respect you, for treating her as an individual, who could have likes and dislikes of her own.
...Finally, listen most, and talk [especially about yourself !] least. The best 'conversationalist' is one who is the most attentive listener - who really cares about what the other person has to say !
All the Best for your Date : Enjoy yourselves !
2007-01-11 22:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shushana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly from what you say you really dont need ideas on what to do or say... if you chat easy on the net then you should be right making general conversation... Bring up the things you have in common ...... and do the gentleman things like open the door and pull her chair out etc.... Most important is be yourself !! Have fun you both have reached the next level !!! Congrats
2007-01-11 22:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ehlana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi id plan somewhere nice to go,dress to your best no fidgetting as i know this will be hard especially as youve never met,dont talk about yourself all off the time as each other questions ie:what music are you into etc.
try buying flowers and give them to the young lady when you meet(assuming you are a guy)and comment on the clothes she is wearing.
2007-01-11 22:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by gunnermarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't turn up wearing one of those comedy inflatable sumo suits and scream "Huzzah!!!!" That tends to put people off i find!
2007-01-11 22:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck. take her somewhere nice. if a place sucks she will remember that forever - first impression. and wear smth nice and do not forget to take a shower before u go. it is really interesting how it will go. good luck
2007-01-11 22:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about ur stamp collection :)
2007-01-11 22:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by shizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. and just have a laugh, dont forget to tell someone where you are going!
2007-01-11 22:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident,if it dosent work move on...
2007-01-11 22:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by Life Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋