Hey since u are boys tell me...is a girl supposed to start talking to u or should she wait for u to notice her?because i know this one gye ;ikes me because all of his mates say so but i dont know him he looks cute but he nvere speaks up should i...oh yeah and how long does it take for a boy to kiss a girl he likes the first date or never?
2007-01-11 22:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by Stela 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...men are shy too. maybe thats all it is. he may not know where to start, or just might not wanna make an azz outta himself. if you feel like he's worth the time, talk to him. even if its just to ask why he doesnt speak to you if he's feeling you like his friends say. there are no rules as to who's supposed to speak first. but hell its just a conversation it cant hurt anything. if a guy cant be your friend its probably not a good idea to just jump into the relationship phase. the physical side of a relationship will only hold strong for so long, when all else fails if you dont have communication, what do you have left?
2007-01-11 22:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by king.8307 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know I am a girl answering this question BUT chicky if you like this guy then there is nothing stopping you from walking up and saying hi... If you chat to his friends then why not walk up to them while he is there and say hi to them all inc the boy you like ! Starting a conversation is a good thing... then see what happens. Some guys are just way to shy to say hi !
As for the kiss.... do it when you feekl ready not as a rule on dates !
2007-01-11 22:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ehlana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda hard because not everyone is the same.
i say you should go and stand for yourself.
talk to him and do not tell him that youre into him.
make him feel that youre approachable.
if that doesnt work then give up on the guy.
he is still imature or he doesnt like you.
there is nothing wrong if the girl makes the first move.
its all upon how you do it.
2007-01-11 23:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is 2007, not 1950...Take the initiative and step to the guy and ask him out.
If you know you like him, why hesitate??
Usually a kiss on the first date is normal, by the way!
Good Luck!
Go get yo man, girl!! (Before another chick does!)
2007-01-11 22:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by David 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait. Next time you see him just start making small talk. As far as the kissing thing, if you think its taking him too long to kiss you or if you think he;s too shy, kiss him first.
2007-01-11 22:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some different person tell them extraordinary and unattractive lies about you. something alongside the strains of "did you recognize that she wears an complete set of dentures....driving coincidence in 2d grade," or "She changed into in reformatory for a 12 months after stabbing a guy that appeared at her too lengthy," or "Her boyfriend basically were given out of reformatory for stabbing a guy she danced with at a celebration." often in case you scare them or turn them off thoroughly they flow away.
2016-12-02 04:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach him. don't even think about romance or anything else in the first few weeks. you don't know him yet. just get to know him and be familiar with each other. if things don't work out later, at least you got a friend.
2007-01-11 22:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by james b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go and talk to him, he seems to be a very shy boy, encourage him, and a time for a kiss, no body no, but it happen when every thing is in the right time, place
2007-01-11 22:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by terry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure go ahead and make the first move honey. No point in wasting time...and if you like him then kiss him yourself! :)
2007-01-11 22:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by sajid970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men ....well me anyway are absolutely rubbish at picking up signals......So I prefer to be asked out by the girl.....It's alot easier that way ...... At least I know she likes me....
2007-01-11 22:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋