We see each other almost everyday, but i really dont know how to tell her that I have feelings for her. She is a nice person and I dont wanna spoil our friendship. Any advice?
2007-01-11 22:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just flirt with her and see if she flirts back.
2007-01-15 01:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! Mr. what do you think, how will she know. You are doing the worst mistake of your life. If you don't express your feelings in clear way and as soon as possible, you might loose a lot. You worry about loosing the friendship, if you suppress your feelings, the friendship will have no meaning. You are not being honest to her, my dear friend. When you will realize it, it will be late.
Please, please take my advice: GO NOW and tell her how you feel about her. There is nothing to be shy, never worry how will she respond, be prepared for a NO. If she is polite, be gracefull in accepting a no. But go and tell her. I tell you, there is absolutely no point in hiding your feelings once you have them. May be she is waiting for you. You have nothing to loose really.
2007-01-11 22:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be open and honest about it with her, if she really is a good friend and she doesn't have the same feelings for you it wont matter that much.
Remember, if you do not ask you do not get.
If you don't you will never know, she will probably get a boyfriend and you will be gutted that you never said anything. I would probably stay clear of hints as she wont pick up on it and it will just leave you frustrated!
Good look
2007-01-11 22:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Chris B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see that there is a problem in you telling her how you feel. However, you need to be clear in your own mind that you are able to accept that she might not feel exactly the same way about you. If you expect more than she is able to give, that is when the friendship could become strained. Good luck!
2007-01-11 22:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by sirjulian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her you're falling in love, just ask her... Call her name, and ask the Q like this,
"what's her plan towards this friendship",
if she answers, and ask you why you ask? tell her
"because you feel something so strong each time you're around her and you don't know what it is, so you have to ask if she feels the same way, but it's okay"
then you'll have to cover it up with... "so tell me how are you doing today, or how has your day being? tell me about it".... By then you must have known if she feels something for you because it'd definately show on her face...
Ps: Look into her eyes when you're talking to her, it means alot...
2007-01-11 22:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi try asking her to go out with you maybe a drink or restaurant or maybe the cinema,then tell her how beautifull she is and tell her you like what she is wearing .
try buying her flowers(or secretly send them to her through the post)some girls like the element of surprise,and maybe she might have feelings for you and be touched by the suggestion you sent flowers to her.
but please take things slowly as you dont want to frighten her away .good luck and all the best.
2007-01-11 22:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by gunnermarie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say to her I think I'm falling in love with you. If she says something like "Eeeeewww yuck". Tell her it wasn't love that you were feeling, it was heartburn
2007-01-11 22:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just drop hints now and again. watch her reaction, if she doesnt respond its probably best to leave it, if she responds, go for it!
2007-01-11 22:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋