i have a realationship with a man from 2 years.I met him in a site for serious relationship.I like him a lot.I saw him two times.He was atracted from how i look,how i speak..............everything.But we live so far away from each other.In different countries.I know his kids,and i think they liked me too.So no problems at all.
But that what i want to ask you is,we never have had a sex.May on our next meeting we can do that,but i am not sure if he will like me in bed.I mean i am good looking,i am young,but i am too shy.I have before another partners,and i was always shy with htem too.I like to be the good in bed,and already he told me what he like in sex.But i am not sure if i want to try all this things.I dont really like my body-i have an operation on my stomach-it dosnt look ugly or bad,but i feel uncomfortable to undress infront of other persons.
Sorry may be it sound too crazy............but i need some advices!!!
Thanks
2007-01-11 22:25:30 · 11 answers · asked by Tigress in love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every female is a little uncomfortable so to speak but it sounds like you really like this man and to travel to see each other is a huge thing seeing as you live in different countries... if you feel you are ready to have sex next time you meet then go for it... No one is automatically brilliant in bed... you grow together and talk about how to make it better or try new things.... experiencing and learning is half the fun !!!! Dont worry all will work out in the end
2007-01-11 22:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ehlana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first tell him how you feel, second you have been mostly talk or writting or what ever so he is in love with your mind, so anything in-person would be better. So if he knows this stuff about you know and is ok with it, then the 2 of you can work out the rest at your own pace.
2007-01-12 06:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure he is everything he says he is before you have sex with him. If you both feel the time is right then it doesn't matter what you think you look like as long as he thinks you are beautiful. Don't worry about your performance as if you really like this guy and he likes you then he will think you are a goddess.
2007-01-12 06:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear this alot with women. It seems to be a common fear. But from a guy's perspective...there's nothing to be worried about. I've never been in a relationship where a girl's performance affected my feelings.
Anyways the first time is seldom ever good. We guys tend to be a minuteman. :)
2007-01-12 06:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex doesnt mean that you have two be completly naked. so mabye for the first couple of times while your getting comfortable with him-you can keep your shirt on. i think you should be honest with him and tell him that your shy.he can help you through this and take special care to make sure your comfortable and enjoying yourself just as much as he is.
2007-01-12 06:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by magdalena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tigress in love , have some confidence in yourself and become a tigress in bed too . Sex is not about how perfect your bodies are but about being bold & inhibited....
2007-01-12 06:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tigress turned into a pussycat.dont research much.everything settles in right time.wish u have a fabulous ...
2007-01-12 06:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told this guy all these things and he doesn't have a problem with it then don't worry about it.
2007-01-12 06:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him take the lead.. if your not shure and he is then hand him he reins
2007-01-12 06:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a big issue.anyone can have an operation.do not be so concious of that.
2007-01-12 06:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋