I Luv all your answers, But we also have a child together, I am going with him just to support him, but you have to remember, his sons have not bother with him or their stepsister for 16 yrs.now all of a sudden they want him to be there for them,I do understand they had kids together, just like i did with my 1st, They didn't need him all this time, now they do?I have also been there for those 2 boys I bought them 3 cars , and so on, I jus feel like a knife been threw me and twisted inside me, I don't know why this is bothering me so much.
2007-01-11 22:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by Tigerette S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
They are seeking reconciliation. That is not a bad thing.
2007-01-11 22:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U asked the same question in a different manner but this time u added a little different mix into the batter. the answer from me is still the same support ur husband no matter what grow up be the better woman and stop trying to show his kids up and u being soooo nice cuz u r really showing how selfish u r right now by even being mad that he wants to attend his exes funeral at the request of his sons. 'They shouldn't even had have to ask him he should've told them he'd be there out of shear respect to them and her family. U a real piece of beauty now that I see u for who u really r. Ur just as bitter as the ex he's burying and now he has u to contend with for the rest of his life. I feel sorry for him since he obviously has no taste in women at all. U showed ur true colors by asking this question again thinking that there would be other answers that would support u wrong way of thinking. U the bitter one in the whole picture and the evil stepmother his sons see u for. So don't even bother to go with him cuz it's obvious u're only thinking of poor little u. And don't u dare to e-mail me cuz u'll get worse than this cuz now I really see u for u and there ain't no changing my mind, poor guy (ur husband he now has to continue living the rest of his life with the likes of u).
2007-01-11 22:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, God wants you to follow your husband's lead, unless he is leading you away from God.
It's going to be difficult, but always maintain a sweet spirit. Maybe this lady was not nice, was not responsible, was not mother of the year nor wife of the year. What she was, was a human being who made a lot of mistakes. And now, she will never have the chance to make up for those mistakes. If she is unsaved, then things are much worse for her now. Let your husband have his compassion for her. Let him go and grieve. Stand by his side and let him know that you support his decision. Do not let him know that you are mad about this. This will only cause strife and people will look at you the way you are looking at this deceased lady.
Find the kindness in your heart and maintain a sweet spirit. It can only bring something good into your life if you do.
2007-01-11 22:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When death comes to a family, the decent thing is to set aside all the past hurts and resentments. They may resume after the funeral, but for the moment respect the time of grief.
2007-01-11 23:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by PhD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I felt the same way toward my ex-sister-in-law when their mother died. That woman went to her grave wondering why her daughter never brought the gandchildren over to see her, then all of a sudden mama dies, and former sister-in-law is acting like the world came to an end. Where was she when her mother was alive, if she cared so much?
I'm not saying either one of us is right to feel this way, but that it's a common way to feel. God bless.
2007-01-11 22:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is this...they have lost one parent and now wants him to grieve with them. After the funeral --just hope that they leave him be and not interfere with your realtionship anymore. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-11 22:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by shonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what's best for your Husband. Put aside your feelings for his benefit. This means alot to him. Good Luck. :)
2007-01-11 22:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are mad
2007-01-11 23:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by OMG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whos funeral are you going to ?
2007-01-11 22:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are really MAD
2007-01-11 22:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋