why is it that guys just don't want relationships? all they're ever after is 'fun'!
2007-01-11 22:09:27 · 41 answers · asked by LISA S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 30 and looking for someone 30-40 but they still just want 'fun' so i dont think it's anything to do with age
2007-01-11 22:15:16 · update #1
Because we work hard at work and then at home taking care of our children and whatnot, so we like to relax and have fun when we can.
2007-01-12 14:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just the guys around you. Don't generalise. There are sooo many people in this world. You can't put them in one category. May be because all the guys you see or fall for fit the typical player profile and really don't want a relationship. Just choose your guys carefully.
So your question is wrong, however you look at it.
Do you mean all the guys, you fall for.
Do you mean all the guys who hit on you wanting sex, may be because you are attractive.
Do you mean some guy friends of yours who are just sleeping around.
Also age does matter. The older they get the more they want to be in a family.
I know a girl who falls for the wrong guys over and over again.
I know a guy who says all girls these days wanna have fun, and he is the one looking for a relationship.
Me and my bf are in a serious relationship and we have already had our fun ( we are both around 20yrs.)
So I guess choose the guys you fall for, you hang out with, and the places you go to.
Take Care!
2007-01-11 22:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by weird_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another question that puts all men into one category, like we are all the same......
Why do so many women do this ?
Over the last few years many women have complained about stereotypical references about their sex, yet here we are with yet another stereotypical reference about men.
Not all men only want to have 'fun', some of us are not afraid of commitment and some of us even believe in being honest.......
2007-01-11 22:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Martin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats becoz the age does play a factor,usually women by 30 r mature and wanna settle down ,but most now just wanna date around and no strings attached ,guys the same after 30 just want casual relations,
2007-01-11 22:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, not only men want fun. i always wanted to have fun when i got first time divorsed ay yhe age of 32. how the hell i ended up being married again i really have no idea. obviously he didn't want to have just fun. and why on earth anyone wants to get married anyway?
2007-01-11 22:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a different type of guy. Your obviously attracted to men who don't want heavy relationships or commitment: Free Spirits.
Some are more seriouse minded, but remember you've also got to give them time, to fall in love with you. You may develop feelings quickly, but they may not. Think more carefully about how to trap (cynical?) them emotionally and don't scare them with any clingy or needy behavior. It will happen eventually, you may just have to be patient.
2007-01-11 22:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by graliv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its because they are not serious,some men only want one thing,and once they get it they get bored,there are genuine guys out there(me ha ha ) its up to you to find the right guy, its nothing to do with age either, no mater the age if someone is seroius you will know.relationships are complety diiferent to fun,you have to work at a relatiobship and you get out of it what you put in.
2007-01-12 00:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by jcraze1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't ALL want fun it's just that you are picking the wrong guys or maybe you have a reputation (not necessarily deserved) that makes guys not see you in a romantic way.
2007-01-11 22:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because at that age thy probably have a serious relationship and are just looking for a bit of fun to light their fires
2007-01-11 22:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want relationships, boys want fun. Doesn't matter what their age is.
2007-01-11 22:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by mbasey46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋