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The rehearsal dinner.

2007-01-12 12:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0 0

Well if you are traditional, you pay for the rehersal dinner, and help out or throw the gift opening, if the couple decides to have one. I have also seen the parents work together, where the groom's family might offer to pay for the flowers, or something else to do with the wedding if it is going to be a big one. Weddings are not cheap, not even in Vegas. keep in mind that a photographer will usually start at about $800 and go up, the cake can be $500 or more, the dress well we don't even want to go there, even at a good deal you are looking at $350. If you are generous and can afford to help a little more than just the dinner, i am sure it would be greatly appreciated. It never hurts to offer, just do it in a non-affending way, you are not trying to say the bride's parents are not financially capable, but they don't need to spend their retirement. I am one of four girls in my mother's family and one of five in my dad's family, i paid for my own. It was hard, i had to take out a loan, and put a lean against my car. But it was beautiful, and everyone had a great time.

2007-01-19 04:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by casady96 3 · 0 0

I think that the groom's parents can offer to help pay for some portion of the wedding - whether it be the hall, or the photographer or something like that. They can also hold the rehearsal dinner, which is nice. And of course make a speech at the wedding welcoming the bride into their family. I think the most important thing is that they make the bride feel welcome and support the new couple during this stressful time. Personally, my in-laws treated us to our honeymoon. A VERY nice wedding gift! At this day and age, I think a wedding can be a collective effort. It should no longer be the responsibility of only the bride's parents to pull off this grand event.

2007-01-12 03:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0 0

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2016-10-30 21:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Traditionally in America, the Grooms parents will hold a rehersal dinner at a fancy resturaunt or have something catered.

But nothing is written in stone.

If the future in-laws get along well enough, splitting the recection bill, or paying for the wedding dress isn't unheard of. It all depends.

2007-01-11 22:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The grrom's family will pay for the reshersal dinner, the engagement party(optional--only after the brides parents hosts theres.) The grooms attire, their personal attire, a gift for the birde and groom and the shipping of weddings gifts to the couples home. and a special wedding gift towards the wedding like, goblets, etc... Congratulations!!

2007-01-19 02:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 0 0

Traditionally, the groom is responsible for the Rehearsal dinner, the bride's flowers, and his own clothing. Not much compared to the bride, but it is certainly a topic for discussion if you feel comfortable... Many people are splitting costs as many grooms are becoming more involved in the planning.

2007-01-19 08:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie B 5 · 0 0

I just got married, so I am a pro! The groom's parents pay for the rehersal dinner and the bar tab at the reception. The bride's parents pay for everything else! And let your bride know, The Maid of Honor is supposed to throw the bridal shower, not the mother of the bride! we had a problem with that!

2007-01-12 01:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by jacksonblonde 2 · 1 0

Usually the grooms parents pay for the rehersal dinner, the brides family traditionally pays for the wedding, but just make sure he shows up.

2007-01-19 07:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by flagshipcva73 1 · 0 0

Usually buy the wedding band, Provide the bar at the reception, Buy the bride's dress and pay for the wedding ceremony. Its the Grooms responsiblity to prepare and pay for the honeymoon getaway.

2007-01-18 04:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by pam 2 · 0 0

Today i think most people no longer go by the his/her divisionary table. I approached my hubby's parents and said this is the deal (we hubby?i) are paying for the wedding. And we are going to have this that and the other. You and my parents are allowed to invite this many guests above that you pay for the difference. My parents paid for the dj/photo my aunt the 3 limo's we used, and my in laws asked if they could help with something- so we laid it out and said all we had left was the church donation and a few small things- and they were not tolf "we expect this or that", they were gracios enough to pay the church and surprised us with a 5 day honey moon. You need not look at a wedding as who has to pay for what times have changed and many like i said no longer follow suit to the he pays/she pays. If they ask and want to help offer a variety or cost items and if they do something great for them and you- but your setting yourself up for a fall if you go into it thinking they should pay for anything. it's your wedding not theirs.

good luck

2007-01-19 14:56:07 · answer #11 · answered by KATHEYCARCRASHER 2 · 0 0

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