this woman works with me and gave me a big compliment. how can i find out if she really likes me without losing my job? i don't catch her looking at me and we hardly talk to each other, but i think that she might be interested. thanks...
2007-01-11 21:59:08 · 15 answers · asked by luckystrike_x007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The compliment was- you look marvelous (!!!). thank you guys- so far i like your answers!
2007-01-11 22:06:51 · update #1
Slow down kid don't get caught up in a sexual harassment case at work. Wait for her to make a few more moves that would convince u she is interested in u. But if she just made one complementary comment to u doesn't mean she loves u or even has any interest in u other than just being a coworker. U obviously that day looked exceptionally better than other days, wore a nice smelling Cologne or did something that she was grateful for that not to many others do and she noticed. U didn't say what she said so I can't even grasp what made u think she was interested in u in any other way if it was the first kind words shes spoken to u.
2007-01-11 22:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her. Start talking to her a bit, see what she's about. It could be she is interested, it could be that she is married for all you know! The best thing to do is get more info about her. If you talk to her more, and learn about each other, not only will you find out if she likes you, she may even start to like you if she doesn't already.
2007-01-12 06:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by jaynic72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After careful thought I have decided that you need to tell us what the compliment was on. After all something like 'You have an amazing smile' and 'Wow nice trouser package' are two very different things
2007-01-12 06:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, sounds like you're trying to make this happen. You're interested and want that interest reciprocated, but obviously it hasn't been. You're trying to find anything to make you feel that this is true. If it is you'll find out, just sit back and wait, don't force yourself to believe something without any evidence. Just wait.
2007-01-12 06:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by imd1king 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? What is wrong with you? Cant a woman just give a compliment?
And what about you? Do you love her or just becouse she loves thats all that matters?
God! what is this world coming to?
2007-01-12 06:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This compliment does not mean,she is in love with you.Dont get ideas.
2007-01-12 06:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can your relationship interfere with your job. if you are interested ask her on a date and depending on the answer you get plus her body language you will know whether or not she's interested.
2007-01-12 06:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by shawna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to ask her out and find out more about her, let her know more about u as well, things will go on naturally if it's meant to be worked out.
2007-01-12 06:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she could be in love w/ u, but she's not just making it so obvious! u want to find out? hmm.. i've no so much idea. but one thing's for sure.. just w8 4 the right time to find it out! yeah..
2007-01-12 06:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont read to deep into it-it could be nothing.Wait a while before approaching her.
2007-01-12 06:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋