Me and my girl have been together for almost the last two years. Now she has moved back to her country and I am moving to another country. We have not broken up, but because of circumstances she would like to be near her parents and I cant go and live with her at the moment. She does not know what she would like to do with us and she does not want to break up, and neither commit and take some time to see how things go for her at home. Its hard for her to move to my new country because its pretty far away from where her parents live.....so my question is that even though we are giving each other the freedom of choice and freedom to do anything and not being selfish, where do we stand together ?
2007-01-11 21:55:11 · 2 answers · asked by Cerebraltissue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds as though you both care enough about each other and your relationship to not end it at this time. The only answer is to wait and see how it goes both with your girlfriend and your self after the time you spend apart.
2007-01-11 23:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one, if i were you i would just leave things as they are for now. see/write/speak to each other whenever you can and always make certain that you both feel the same way, if after long periods of time that you stop hearing from her or you stop trying to contact her i think its' safe to assume that you both need to move on and the situation isn't right for you both anymore
2007-01-11 22:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋