we were lovers before,.. but after sometime,.. he was different,.. really different.. then suddenly i found out that he has anonther girl.. :(
2007-01-11 21:52:08 · 21 answers · asked by jammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure I would, but not act on it. He's moved on, so I'd move on and stay away from him and his new self and new lover.
2007-01-11 21:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well... For me, if he has another girl, then before I break up with him I would give him as chance to choose... Me or his other girl... If his answer is his other girl, then no questions asked... I will break up with him. Why? One: Why stay with someone who can't even stay loyal to you? Two: There are lots of other guys who are better than him. Three: He already loves another girl so why will I even try to FIT in? Leave them be. If he ever comes back to you and say "I made a mistake..." don't take him back THAT easily... Try to analyze if he just wants to use you... Lastly, I am way to better for him... I DESERVE a better guy and I'm pretty sure you do to... So girl, don't waste your love one someone who doesn't care about you. Remember: "Always make sure that the guy loves you more so that when situations like this occur, he will be the first to say sorry and he will choose you over any other girl... Stay happy and live your life to the fullest... You only get one of those... :-)
2007-01-11 22:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Rinko_Sano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We take time to get over relationship breakdowns. It isn't love anymore, it is that we haven't put it behind us yet. Seeing our ex with someone else is bothersome but in time you'll move past that. Just remember all the things that led to the breakdown in the first place. If you wasn't happy then, you wouldn't be if he came back so just remember the bad side of the relationship and look for a new one that doesn't have all those negative aspects.
2007-01-11 21:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by jaynic72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love and pain run the same course. How you deal with the ups and downs is what defines one character. We all have flaws and become self consumed at times but if its was love and not the fact that you were making love then he would not hurt someone he cares about. Be strong someone is waiting for you.
2007-01-11 22:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by razual2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes,he is a part of me, although he hurt me.I can't forget him and I never will.A few months ago I found that he has a gf too, and I was sad too, but believe me after some time, I realized that when he is with a girl I feel different,like it was more easy for me to face the fact that he is not with me anymore,that he belongs to another girl, so I stopped thinking of him.But I still love him:(
2007-01-11 21:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and this guy were on and off for many years and we still are.He has hurt in so many ways!He has cheated on me,denied me,disrespected me and left me all alone when i needed him the most!No man has ever hurt me the way he has but there is just something about this guy that makes me love him.My friends say that im a fool to love him,but i still do and will forgive him anytime.He is not good looking,not rich,doesnt have the greatest personality but theres just something that does it for me!
2007-01-11 22:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is often when most people feel the most in-love with someone, no I don't stop loving them, I may quit talking to them, but the love, real love doesnt go away easily
2007-01-11 22:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to love the person who hurt you my 20 year marriage is proof of that.it becomes a problem if the person doing the hurting does not try to change the behavior's that caused the problem then it would be time to get out and be good to yourself and not worry about partner
2007-01-11 22:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of idiots do where do u fall into the idiot trap or senible inteligent person who's moved on as he has obviously done?
2007-01-11 22:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't control feelings, even if you found out he cheated and you still feel you love him, there's nothing you can do about that. But you can control suppression of those feelings. There is absolutely no situation of explanation that makes cheating right...NONE. Don't stand for it, you may still love him, but don't put yourself through, love yourself more. Sounds sappy huh, but its true.
2007-01-11 22:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by imd1king 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋