we both have known each other frm 6-8 months .. and we wer gud frnds .. juss in the 2nd onth of our frndshp all those feelings were developd for her .. i was always scared to say her ..coz i dint wna loose her .. before her i had a grl we both were 2gethr for about a year .. n nw juss a month ago she approaced me .. i love her like anythng .. i'll juss break into pieces im ditched by her ..shes my love .. my life ... but i think shes juss playing with me ... I LOVE HER LIKE ANYTHNG !!
2007-01-11 21:51:21 · 8 answers · asked by cmrn_singh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So just LOVE HER! Is this a big deal for you to love somebody? All your worry over this will only take away the JOY that you can experience being with her. Run and go for it. stop all the fretting for goodness sake!
2007-01-11 21:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing to do... CONFRONTATION! Confront her and ask her the truth... Ask her if she is just playing with you or if she really loves you. If she says she loves you then ask her other questions or tell her instances wherein you felt as if she was just playing with you. Converse with her. Conversations are always the answers to misunderstandings. However, if she admits that she is just playing with you... Then needless to say... You must either just cool off your relationship for a few weeks OR permanently break up with her. I know... you might say it's tough since you really love her BUT what is better, to let her go and let her find her true happiness and you get to find yours too OR to suffer every single second because the insecurity you feel is too overwhelming? Obviously, I would pick the second choice. It's better to stay single and be happy rather than to stay in a wrecked relationship... Remember: "If you won't do this now, you may never get another chance. So don't have any regrets... Don't live your life asking "what if" and telling yourself "if only"...
2007-01-11 22:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rinko_Sano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... If this girl is just playing you, why are you giving her your heart? There are other girls... girls that may be more mature & not play with you. I didn't follow all of what you were saying about 'before her I had a girl' -you had a different girlfriend for about a year? If you are still in school, may I suggest you concern yourself with your books & giving your teachers your full attention? Get into your studies more. That should be your number one priority. :) There will be plenty of time for dating & thinking about girls later after you've established a good education for yourself! These are important years! Please use them wisely!
2007-01-11 22:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go sloooooooow. Relax and enjoy the friendship and allow it to progress on it's own. Help her feel relaxed with you and enjoy being around you...........people do better together when it's comfortable for them. Good luck, hope it works out.
2007-01-11 21:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move too fast. Take your time to find out if she also feels the same for you too.
2007-01-11 22:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by divagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love... that's called Infatuation
2007-01-11 22:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and see if you can solve.
2007-01-11 22:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by cnzuu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approached you for what?
2007-01-11 21:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sammer (Jim W) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋