This girl likes me and has for alot she wants to become close with me but i dont really like her but lke her friend. Is it wrong to become close with her so i can be more close with her friend who i like.
2007-01-11 21:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the reason you are asking this question is because you want someone to talk you out of the answer you already know. Try this, switch the scenario where you are the girl and she is you. How crappy would it be to know you were being used? I find that if we are honest, carma doesn't kick us in the butt as hard if at all. If you enjoy her friendship, then be her FRIEND and do the right thing.
2007-01-11 21:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by lustful TR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong, BUT if you really really like her friend then keep your distance from them both and wait till the chick that you dont like is over you and onto someone else then find away to "accidently" bump into the one that you do like and ask her out of a drink. This still doesnt guarentee good results for most friends stick together and dont let boys interfear with friendships but its better than hanging out with the one that like you just to get to the one you like. that will only end in fights.
2007-01-12 05:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is! Tell her that you want to be her friend and that you and her could learn alot from eachother but be honest with her and tell her that you do not have the same feelings for her that she has for you. She won't think your scum and her friend will respect you even more!
2007-01-12 05:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahah! No, you should just tell her the truth. You really like hanging out with her, but you don't feel that way right now.
2007-01-12 05:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by supercurlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud make the position clear to her so that she is not hurt later on.
2007-01-12 05:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you already know the answer. How would you feel if someone did it to you?
2007-01-12 05:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get in there.
2007-01-12 05:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by DAVE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be friends with her and if u like her friend go ahead.........
2007-01-12 05:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋