We have been together for 2 years, and he still has that feeling that everything is still new. Can anyone help I WANT IT!
2007-01-11 21:30:51 · 21 answers · asked by Kayle xxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband and I will be married for 10 years on the 15th of this month! You two need to go out on dates, write eachother little love letters and put them where he will least expect it like in his coat pocket, his steering wheel, his lunch, you also need to let eachother know how special you are to oneanother, I garentee by doing this you will get that new feeling back and it will never go away! When you fight talk about it instead of yelling at eachother you are both adults. Also under no circumstances go to bed angry even if it takes all night! Start the next day out fresh and new because you solved the proublem before you went to bed and you should not be angry anymore. Most times I am the first to apoligize too even if it wasn't my fault. The proublem will be over faster this way because men are stubborn!
2007-01-11 21:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time away from everything if you can't afford a dirty weekend go home turn off fones lock the door tell all ur friends ur not avaliable and just enjoy your time together but most of all KISS each other u'd be surprised how many people stop kissin after a while (me n my man did) and how much it affects both of u spend 15 mins kissin no gropin feelin or touching just big kisses i tryed n it work everytime make u feel like u 16 again
2007-01-12 05:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by typinkpuppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens that some times the attraction wanes as we get used to the person we ones admired so much. You need to learn to be excited about him.
Another useful tip is for you guys to plan an activity..., prefarably something you both have not done before or a trip to a place you've never visited together before. Something that'll give you the both opportunity of exploring each other.
It may help.
2007-01-12 05:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ednut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But it's not new any more, is it ? So you're unlikely to feel it is (and if you do, it's simply a lie or a trick). What should happen is other (equally exciting and equally strong) emotions should take over from the newness. If they don't you're either too young to be in a serious relationship (and therefore need to keep getting the new feeling) or this isn't 'the one'. xxx
2007-01-12 05:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try fone s*x one upstairs n one down youll be dying to get to him
go on dates again get ready arrange to meet somwhere exciting
what did you enjoy most when you 1st got together try n recreate the start of your relationship
but remember where you are now the love must b so much more than when you were 1st toghther and that is really special. where you are in your relation ship now should be bettrt than ever
sorry if im no help but ive felt like that b4 and i tryed a few of the tips it did make me appriacte my relationship more
2007-01-12 05:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by andrew+nat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine him with another woman who feels about him like he does about you! That'll wake you up. I love this expression my Dad used to say to me:" How can I miss you if you never go away?"
I believe love IS NOT a feeling but an action. Show him how much you love him by showing him. Simple. But very difficult because it takes more time than, " I love." Love you too." kind of BS.
Does that help you in any way?
2007-01-12 05:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i've found that if you spend a little less time with him.. when you do meet it'll start feeling exciting again. Don't talk as often on the phone.. try a new hair style or buy a new dress but don't tell him. That whole flirty feeling will start coming back. Good Luck
2007-01-12 05:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by kweenses 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try this we did i go into a tavern without her she walks in sit's down maybe dances withe a few people talks a little give about 1 hr or as long as you can stand it the start hitting on each other and get a motel room and do it like bunnies
2007-01-12 05:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not going to happen..we have been married 4 years and no matter what.. its pretty much 0 and 1 after the first year..hate to burst your bubble.. but well thats life
2007-01-12 05:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could travel for a while, that will help to stare up the new love.
2007-01-12 05:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋