I hear that oral is a sin and masturbation. But is it okay stimulate your clitoris yourself when love making? Don't get me wrong my man is bonafied, I just wanna know cuz I was recently saved and I was always a big freak before. Now I don't know what i'm allowed to do!
2007-01-11 21:20:16 · 16 answers · asked by Rabbit's Girl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you were recently saved, why don't you search for answers in the Bible or from a minister. If Yahoo Answers is where you intend to search for spiritual advice, you have more problems than what kind of sex you have with your husband.
2007-01-12 00:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by cmw 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God meant for us to enjoy each other bodies within the boundaries of marriage.
A good rule of thumb is not do anything that may result in HARM to your husband or yourself. Anal sex, for example, can cause serious harm. Rectal cancer is one of the top causes of deaths among the male homosexual population today.
Oral sex, on the other hand, will only be dangerous if the area is infected, diseased, or not cleaned properly. Take steps to avoid and then have fun.
2007-01-12 05:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As a christian, I can tell you that whatever you do with your husband is permissible between the two of you. Just don't indulge in it too much.
The bible says your body belongs to your husband, and your husband's body belongs to you. The two must remain together lest Satan takes advantage of the situation.
Masturbation is not a sin, although the catholic church may tell you otherwise. Again, you are safe as long as you don't get addicted to it and you don't think of other men (esp married ones) when you do it, otherwise it is considered adultery.
2007-01-12 05:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Torchbearer 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are married, so ANY type of sex with your hubby is fine. I think it's fine to stimulate your clitoris while having sex, I think it's ok to give your man oral pleasure and for him to give it to you. I think it's ok for him to use his fingers on you and even toys(if you like them). If you prefer anal sex, then go for it.
Don't get all hung up on what right and what's wrong when it comes to sex and religion. Just do what feels good to you and hubby, and don't feel guilty.
What happens in your bedroom has nothing to do with your church or religion, and has EVERYTHING to do with keeping your marriage in working order!
2007-01-12 05:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You should wear fig leaves over your genitalia. It is okay to stimulate your clitoris. It may be the only way you can climax. Sodomy is penetration of the anus.
2007-01-12 05:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
>>But is it okay stimulate your clitoris yourself when love making?<<
Yes, that's fine. Just about everything is okay with your husband, as long as he ejaculates in your vagina -- not in your mouth, not in your rectum, not on your leg, not in a condom, etc. Oral and anal stimulation is fine, just not ejaculation there.
2007-01-12 06:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The Bible doesn't address female masturbation one way or the other.
Sodomy is oral sex, anal sex, or sex with animals.
2007-01-12 05:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Iris 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Since you are a protestant you can do anything you want, the followers of Jesus will follow the teachings of His Catholic Church.
2007-01-12 06:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by carl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Different Christians feel differently about that. I say knock your lights out. As long as you dont harm anyone else.
2007-01-12 05:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it's with your husband, you do whatever you and him want to do.
Sodomy is considered anything that it is not vaginal intercourse. examples: oral or anal sex.
2007-01-12 05:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋