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advices on this one:
Alright, I just met a girl recently and well, we barely talk - but we do talks. I just realized that I kinda like her but I am too afraid to let her know. I've been trying to get to know her but its seem like something is holding me back. I think what really hold me back is that she's White and I am Asian. Anyways, here's come my questions: Should I really try to get to know her first? or Just give up without trying because of the facts that she's White. Any advices will be greatly appreciated. Please no hater or racist comments. Thank you !

2007-01-11 20:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by a9113257311 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

My being an older woman who has been married for many, many years. I had no clue there were still issues between black, white, asian and other culture back grounds dating. Or that the young people still have their concerns when dating a young woman or a young man from a differant cultural back ground.
Bless Your Heart! I see nothing wrong with you getting to know her and pursuing a life of happiness with her. Good Luck and God Bless

2007-01-11 21:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0 0

Just because you are asian and she is white doesn't matter. get to know her become her friend. i went out with an asian guy for a little while. theres nothing wrong with that. if u like her than let her know by being a true friend and if she gives you signs of being a good friend back than well go for it but don't worry about the whiole asian and white thing its ridiculous to throw away a friendship because of it.

2007-01-12 04:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by littlepirateprincess_93 1 · 0 0

Ask yourself. How much do you know about that girl. Before approaching a girl and first compile her bio data.
Difference in race is not a problem. I suggest just go and ask her.
Two things can happen:
1) You will lose your friendship that you have built.
2) Get together and love each other.

But a common problem that everybody forgets is that if the girl says yes, then what will you do. Have you planned anything.

2007-01-12 04:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by prashmanic 4 · 0 0

well if you like her,then go for it!dont worry if she's white.if you think about it well,there's nothing wrong in liking white people if your asian..what you need to do is get to know her first and then after that ask yourself if you really like her.know what im saying?dont be afraid to get to know a person coz there's nothing scary about it.i think you're worried of rejection.dont be..if you dont step forward then you'll always be at the same place.take risk buddy or you wont get what you want..good luck ;)

2007-01-12 04:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥heartbreaker♥ 2 · 0 0

i am asian and i've dated white. there is no difference when it comes to relationship if you're pretty americanized. unless, if you're thinking very seriously about long term perspective, there might be family views, concerns and cultural issues. but if you just wanna date her and get to know her, go for it. this should not be the reason stopping you. and if you're not good at hiding your feelings, chances are she may have already felt something then! good luck! ^_^

2007-01-12 04:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 0 0

grow some balls and TALK to her... don't bother asking the rest of the male species on the internet ... most of which can't hold a conversation with a female for more than 10 minutes in the first place... dumbass... OR... hack off your c0ck and start sucking dick, might as well be of use to SOMEone...

2007-01-12 04:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by some dude 1 · 0 0

u r just over concious due to ur asiab back ground just let the water flow its natural way all the best

2007-01-12 04:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Caring 3 · 0 0

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