I was with my boyfriend for a year now. We met in September of 2005 back in Washington D.C for an internship program. We came back to California and had a long distance relationship up until four months ago. Now after living together we are calling it quits. He is a nice guy but he has a lot of things that I disapprove, like playing games all the time, mostly World of Warcraft. He basically has chosen the game over me and he turns aggressive when I confront him about it. I thought I would be ok, but I feel very sad and I do love him. Can anyone give me some advice in how to confront this situation?
2007-01-11 20:31:00 · 16 answers · asked by Flower_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have heard that that game has caused marrital problems world wide. At a personal level, my best friend fights with her boyfriend about it daily...he even left the house for 2 days once after a fight over WOW. Umm the best advice that I can give is to be sure of your decision, understand why it is happening and then never look back. It is too harmful to dwell on the past. I dont doubt that it is hard losing a partners, especially when you lived together, but it happens to the best of us and dispite it not seeming so now, you will be a better person because of it.
2007-01-11 20:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 22:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dominick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
World of Warcraft is a really good game lol...even my 41yr old ex and his 17yr old son are into it.
But, hard to have a relationship when the one you want to love is addicted to the computer. He hasn't chosen the game over you-he's just addicted.
He has to make time for you also...or else it just won't work-you'll find someone who will make time for you. My husband plays his games too...but not like that-he always puts me first-your guy should too.
2007-01-11 20:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Id start playing the game of wow so much he would not be able to play. Then he'd sit by you and say honey we have so much in common. You guys can make money playing that game. Plus Plus If he wants a turn say one sec honey. Then you can enjoy your peace. And have quiet time. That will drive him crazy. He will get bored and out grow it.
2007-01-11 20:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by someones sister 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are not the only one to lose a lover to Warcraft. I knew someone that lost their husband to that game. Best advice I can give you is just count it as a lost. That games is wicked addicting, good luck.
2007-01-11 20:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Andy 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
maintain the statue quo for the time being afterwards either u 2 wd be all ok or u wont regret the seperation/break in relationship
2007-01-11 20:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find another guy and make sure your guy can see you two doing together and having fun (pretend to have fun if you have to). if this doesn't make him phreaking jealous then i guess he's just a punk...leave him. you can't live with a loser like that
2007-01-11 20:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Moyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 3 billion men more... Dont worry. Love is not special to just him.
2007-01-11 20:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by altantan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is more interested in a game than you, why would you want to be with him anyway? Just let it go.
2007-01-11 20:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are so not alone....
i know loads hu lost their bf's sometimes their husbands to pc games..!
well dear... there are two choices....
either talk to him again and try to work things out/..
or sinply move on and try to live your life....
^^
2007-01-11 20:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by maila_venus9193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋