What are the best things to talk about on a first date in order not to scare her off?

Answer 1

what she works as..hobbies..ask her things about herself..people love to talk about themselves.

Answer 2

What you like to do in your spare time. General interests, crap like that. DONT talk about children, sex, sharing a home etc. Talk about some intersting experiences you've had, like if you've travelled. Ask her about her own interests and things she would like to do. Keep it light on the first date. I make it a rule to not even kiss these days. There are too many psychos and creeps out there. You don't know who might end up stalking you, ok??

Answer 3

Get her to talk about herself, and be friendly and willing to answer questions about yourself. If you think hearing about her family, friends and views is "a load of rubbish" then why would you want to spend time with her anyway. Be natural, relaxed and undemanding, and don't be tempted to put on any kind of act, especially looking soulful and talking about wanting to meet the right girl and have babies with her. That's guaranteed to scare the hell out of her even if that's ultimately her aim too, because if she's got any sense she'll know it's a line and she won't trust you.

Answer 4

- your ex, and how the after the breakup you copied her key so you could sneak into her house and smell her pillow and cry while she was at work
- how you think she is well fit and you always think about her when you are having sex with prostitutes
- the soul searching you did during your 10 years inside
- your parents divorce when you were 6 and how you still HATE THAT B**CH FOR WHAT SHE DID TO US
- the bodies in your cellar, and the way their smell has changed over the last three months
-which plastic surgery operations you think she needs - try offering to pay for them as a reward for every year she stays with you.
have fun!

Answer 5

Her!

Just listen to a load of rubbish about her friends, family , work, etc and try to look interested because you will not get her pants down on a first date anyway. It's always safer to be a "good listener". Don't forget to ask her about her feelings, women LOVE talking about their feelings..


Things NOT to talk about- porn, football , cars or music.

Answer 6

You can talk about art, literature, music, movies, food, pop culture. If you're in school you can talk about teachers, classes, etc.

Most importantly, talk about her interests, dreams and desires. Girls love to talk about their lives. If you listen to her thoughts, she will love it.

The key is to have an engaging conversation to keep her interested.

Answer 7

just stay on safe topics - what you like, what she likes, ask lots of questions, ask questions about what she says in her answers to show that you are listening (eg, you said you like julia roberts, are you an ocean eleven fan? or something like that).

But remember: what NOT to talk about: ex girlfriends, break ups, religious debates, politics. they are NO NO'S!! enjoy! let us know how it goes!!!

Answer 8

The time you got arrested, the time you cheated on your ex, the time you beat the crap out of someone, you know, things along the lines of that.

Answer 9

Don't worry about it - the fact you've had to ask this on here shows you're not going to get a second date x

Answer 10

Well I tend not to mention my 11 inch penis. Not sure what you can say not to scare her off.

Answer 11

funny stuff like movies or funny stories or jokes. girls like that and be cool don't talk a lot of damn things that you done or you want to do, just don't show you are too shallow