this is soooo not hypothetical sad to say.
2007-01-11 19:23:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps it's time to leave her and find another. I'd let her go if she doesn't like me that much, for I'd be a burden to her.
2007-01-11 19:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never would have let it get this far and backed off after the first couple of tries. Short of bribery or unethical coercion you should have realized right away she wasn't interested and was never going to be. The only reason why she hasn't charged you with harassment or stalking is that she is getting a sick thrill out of tormenting you; like she derives some perverted pleasure out of keeping you on her hook. So quit beating your head against the wall and stop this morbid self abuse. The only thing sadder than this "sooo not hypothetical" situation is your futile insistence to keep chasing after her. Eight years? Come on!! No woman alive is worth this amount of trouble. Give it a long over due rest on get your life back on track. For Gods sake man! Move on!!
2007-01-11 19:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to take a hint dude. I mean come on 8 years of getting rejected by a girl and you're still trying? I guess there could be situations where you might pursue a girl for a while and get rejected for certain reasons but eventually win her over but if you havn't won her over in 8 years I think it's time to just give it up.
2007-01-11 19:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you could have sustain it for 8 years. I would've given up after 3 months. Bro, there are plenty of fishes in the sea. If she hasn't fallen for you in 8 years, it'll never happen. That is the truth, and I know it hurts, but you must face the truth, because the truth will set you free. Do not continue to persue her, your heart is already broken, and it will become so broken, it will eventually atomize. That means the pieces of your heart will break up into so small of pieces, you will need a microscope to find them. Be strong, set yourself free, and good luck.
2007-01-11 19:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I've pursued a girl for 5 years and got rejected. Nothing but frustration. It's time to move on.
2007-01-11 19:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by bam_mccarthy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you stop push-n so much she would want you. If you really want this girl then move on everyone want what they cant have. also my dad said he went after my mom for 12yrs she had to get 4 brok-n hearts before she gave my dad a time of day. But anyway if its meant its never to late for it to happen.
2007-01-11 19:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by ashlee s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend see aint no use crying over spill milk...the best u can do for urself is to get over it..i hv been there myself..for 6years i was wth a gal ...2day she's married wth 2 kids for someone she ran away wth....but each time she walks into me she breaks down ....guilt dwells in her .get on wth life the sky is to wide for u to be choked up wth this one ...see it as if God liberated u,,,,cos may be u migth gotted hurter than u are now later in future......count ur blessing there are better, prettier and sweeter ladies waiting out there for u.,brush up urself step into reality....u will forget sooner than u anticippated.
2007-01-11 19:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by johnnie4luv2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would worry about WHY you have hung on to this girl for 8 years??
You need to move on
2007-01-11 19:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone help you please. ok let me try: Move On!! there are so many women wating for a man, we dont need one stuck with someone she clearly doesnt want. Move on, u could make some other female very happy.
2007-01-11 19:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just laugh hysterically about how much time I wasted on someone who wasn't deserving of me.
2007-01-11 19:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by superken1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋