Hi.I am newly married man from india.my first question is tht i am newly married(7 months old).i dont get sexualy excitement towards my partner.but i get quiet excited if i think doing it with some other girl..is it abnormal.?i dont wish to ditch her.my heart never allows me to do so..but my mind always want to do with some other female..so is it abnormal?
and my second query is if there is any female from india who can be with me for one night stand please mail me at mortal_soul111@yahoo.com
2007-01-11 19:03:29 · 19 answers · asked by tarun j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Tarun, After reading ur question I came to a conclusion that u r a husband who want to be sexualy enjoyed. U do sex with some other I dont care but I want to tell u one thing - u r married for a life support not only for sex, understand that. If u have sex with somebody ur future gets spoiled, ur wife's future gets spoiled and the female with whome u have sex gets spoiled. 3 peoples life including urs.................. Do u still want spoil urselfand other 2 ladies? U think ladies are only for sex and how dare u ask for someone for 1 night? Are u not ashamed? I am ashamed to have some Indian like u. Because of u people India's name also gets spoiled. U r a cheat, thats what I can tell u.
2007-01-11 20:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Meera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's normal if you're young. My best friend is 25 and has a beautiful, sexy girlfriend and yet he's always looking at girls and thinking about sex with them. He would never act on those impulses, though. I know little about the Indian culture but if if possible, you need to seek a counselor and talk about your problems. Second part: I'm not sure that having an affair is the greatest way to start off a marraige. think about whether or not you want to stay in a marraige for 30, 40 or 50 plus years if you're wanting others now.
2007-01-11 19:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by yzma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lol!!! Okay, that was funny...at the end.
But no, I don't think it is abnormal for you to fantasize about other women. You are not sexually attracted to your wife. Did you have an arranged marriage or something?? Don't blame yourself. I would suggest trying to make your sex life with your wife more exciting....like games or toys...different positions...oils...you know? Try that, it might work for you.
Please don't listen to all these ignorant people saying that you are perverted and that there is something wrong with your culture.
2007-01-11 19:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by angie20k 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should have married the other girl that excites you.
Now regarding the second query, It is a Indecent Proposal, what package are you offering the female ?
2007-01-11 20:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur second query is shokin coz that bcomes a denial of love 4 her.
and by the way there are a lot of ways 2 resolve this problem.
can consult with a doc & it really helps 4 a lot of people.
2007-01-11 19:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by koolguy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are a sick bast@rd for adverting to cheat on your wife. It is normal to fantasize about other women, but completely wrong to cheat. Why would your heart never allow you to leave your wife yet permit you to sleep around? I hope you get an STD and cannot use your dingy anymore!
2007-01-11 19:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well its only natural because sometimes, the thought of being
with someone for the rest of your life is so frightening that it often
kills your libido. just control your urges and try your best to love
your wife. or at leats try dressing up and role playing. she can
dress like a nurse or a schoolgirl etcetera...
policewoman is my favorite.
2007-01-11 19:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by fisticuffs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is binding get over your self-pity! If you were not so selfish you could probably have a good relationship.
2007-01-11 19:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Right 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you didn't have such ridiculous traditions this wouldn't happen..
Yes it is abnormal... quit thinking like a cheater, you should be ashamed of yourself.
This is not a dating site quit soliciting women for your sexual
gratification.
you should have never gotten married you retard.
2007-01-11 19:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by I love A 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
being a married person,u r not supposed to expect this. try to improve ur relationship with ur wife
2007-01-11 21:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by kashish d 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋