Ok, So I met this guy about two months ago. We hooked up for the night. I have saw him a couple times since then, and we have talked a little... But nothing to big. I was going to call him and see if he wanted to go out to the movies or something. But would I be moving to quick for him? I really like him... And cant get him off my mind... I know for sure I will see him around again, so if I call and he says no... Do you think it will ruin are friendship that we have?
2007-01-11 18:59:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should've, would've, could've. Answer this question what if you see him in two weeks with a different lady and you never asked him? How would you feel? Now then, answer this question what if you see him in two week with a different lady and you did ask him? How would you feel then? The point of this babble is you shouldn't live your life with so many questions. You want a relationship with that guy go and get. You don't, then forget about him and move on.
2007-01-11 19:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't call you because he's not interested in you. If you've already hooked up for the night, and he doesn't talk with you too much, then you should go find another guy. Do you really have a friendship if you don't talk that much? Don't you really just have a sexual relationship?
2007-01-12 03:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by bo, kingpin at large 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not knowing all of the circumstances, I can only go by what you've written here. I would say that if it's ok by you that you be viewed as a sex object, and don't expect the relationship to go any further than casual sex, then by all means, give him a call. Just don't expect that it will ever be anything beyond that. If he wanted anything more, I think he'd have pursued it by now.
2007-01-12 03:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait to call him but just for a bit. Try to find out if he likes you. Talk to him some more and then after you are closer try asking him to a movie.
2007-01-12 03:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Bordering Suicide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get some tickets to a play or something call him up and say ive got these tickets i would like for you to take me to it. If he get weird then take your friend youll have a good time if not and he accepts then your in just dont get pushy
2007-01-12 03:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by sleepydog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You newer know untill you try. If I was you I would definitely call him. Life's 2 short 2 B afraid :)
2007-01-12 03:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by r0msk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait him to call you back , if he has no moves, you can call him after 2 weeks, but if you guys hook again after 2 weeks, thatz mean he is a guy who only like sex but not LOVE
2007-01-12 03:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think you have a friendship? if you call its just gonna make you feel bad because when you give it up that fast it's already doomed, better luck next time
2007-01-12 03:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a tramp. Hooked up for the night? No wonder his not calling
2007-01-12 03:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the biggest loss in life is the ability to answer the "what ifs"
What if I just called
What if I took a chance with him
What if he likes me too
What if I don't do anything
No what ifs
2007-01-12 03:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mergeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋