I recently met a really nice girl who I gave my number to. I wasn't expecting any response from her, but she text me straight away so that I had her number.
Anyway I asked her out on a date a few weeks ago and we arranged to go out after the New Year. We have seen each other a couple of times through my work, and she always seems happy to see me.
We went out on Wednesday night and although a little awkward for both of us, we soon settled in and I thought that we both had a really good time. I text her the next day just to say thanks for a really nice evening and that I would like to see her again, and she didn't reply! I thought that perhaps it was because she didn't have any credit on her phone because she never does have, So I called her in the evening but she didn't answer.
What do I do next?? I don't want to bombard her with text messages or calls if she isn't interested, and quite frankly I don't want to waste my time! But I do really like her!
HELP!!!!
2007-01-11 18:51:11 · 21 answers · asked by fleximaster_uk_2002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry dude but if she wants you she will reply....dont do anything else.
2007-01-11 18:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it a little more time. It may be that she doesn't feel she wants to spend more time with you, which will be sad from your point of view but at least you won't have wasted time. Alternatively, it may just be that she hasn't picked up your text message yet. She might have lost her phone or left it somewhere and hasn't been able to retrieve it yet. Occasionally I forget to bring my phone home from work so there can be a delay of up to a few days before I pick up any messages.
Relax. Remember she did text you straight away after that wedding so that you'd have her number. I bet she does want to see you again and it's just a problem like I outlined above - she's put her phone down somewhere. It would be a good idea if you were to get an alternative contact number for her, or her address, just in case that phone ever gets stolen. Then you can contact her - especially if the phone is the only place she's got your number stored.
2007-01-12 03:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right you shouldn't bombard her with messages, but it's possible she didn't get your text messages and couldn't get to the phone. If you didn't leave a message on the answering machine as well, just keep trying to get through but not more than once a day, on the off chance she is avoiding you and has call display so you don't look like a crazy person. From what you said though it's way too early to leap to conclusions and give up.
2007-01-12 03:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know if something has happened or not to prevent her being in touch.
That said, at the beginning of a relationship is when it is most exciting and you can't wait to see each other and spend time together.
It doesn't sound like there is much zing!
If she is having to think about whether or not she wants to see you then I don't think she is the one for you.
Maybe she tried the last date just to make her mind up about you but doesn't have the heart to say she doesn't want to see you? I used to find that kind of thing hard to do.
I think you should try and move on and if she gets in touch and you are still free fair enough.
Hope whichever way you go it works out!
2007-01-12 04:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be busy; however, if you really did have an enjoyable evening and believe she did too, you just lay it out there straight.
Telephone her, leave a message, telling her you have tried to reach her and you don't know if she has received your messages. then repeat what you have already said in your other messages. Then say it straight....I would really appreciate a courtesy call back, because I am concerned that something may have happened to you. Do you need help, or maybe you could just inform me straight up if you are just not that into me. Explain, monotone , meaning don't yell, or raise your voice, be very nice and pleasant, that you would really would appreciate a courtesy call back telling you that she is OK.
2007-01-12 03:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by samfarriss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call or text her again. I mean don't call or text her more than once a day. I would say call her and then give it a day or so and try it again. If you really like her go for it!! I would, because how often is it that we find someone that we really like. What do you have to lose?! : ) If it doesn't work out there is someone out there that is better for the both of you, and you will find that someone. Don't worry it will all work itself out!!
2007-01-12 02:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Vandersanden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there could be many reason for not replying.. maybe she left her cell in somewhere...or there can be anything.. so just wait for some time. i mean at max a week. in the meantime you can try calling her up again.. .. donot bombard her with text msg.. coz it will b a waste .. if she wanna reply she will to ur single text.. try talking to her at least once .. if she still doensot respond , well u already know what u shud do...
2007-01-12 03:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it be hun - you made an effort - twice - and twice she ignored you. If there is a genuine reason behind why she couldnt get to her phone - she has your number if she wants to contact you. Put it this way - if I liked someone enough and didnt have credit - I would buy it to contact them.
Dont make a fool of yourself with her - good luck xx
2007-01-12 06:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's nt replying or nt answering ur call that means thr can be two things.. thr is somthing abt u tht turned her off.. and in tht case she'l nt call back or reply and the other case whr she also liked u n is jus making it hard for u to get her..the advice for u is.... DON'T CALL OR MESSAGE AT ALL ... date someone else in the mean time.. if she has to come she will.. if she dsnt.. world is full of females ..give ur time to someone else or t the most imp person "u" yourself.. have fun n enjoy life n move on..
2007-01-12 03:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by aint_i_hoot_madonna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude..... wake up and smell the roses.... dont waste your time with this one, find someone who can be at least bothered to return a call or text just to let you know either way. People like her are not worth the time if she is so spineless just to be honest.
2007-01-12 02:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You probably shouldn't mess with irresponsible girls who are broke. If she runs out of credit on her phone she is either irresponsible because she cannot pay her phone bill on time or she uses her phone too much, or she is broke.
2. If she's not immediately returning your phone call, then she probably doesn't like you. Just ignore her and go out with someone else.
2007-01-12 02:56:18 · answer #11 · answered by bo, kingpin at large 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋