i cant let my parents know, so i have to find a way to do it without there consent too. they are big time mormons and wouldnt understand my situation. i love him and this is for the best i just dont want to get him in trouble i dont want your opinion i just want an answer.
2007-01-11 18:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by icelandchicka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knocked you up, didn't he?
He is already in trouble. Even if you marry him your farther can still have him arrested and when convicted he will end up spending 5 - 20 years in prison.
And even if your not pregnant. You shouldn't marry some guy before he gets into trouble. If you know he's a bad news he's not good for you no matter how much you love him only pain will follow you till you realize this.
I'm not going to tell you how to get married without your parents consent instead I'm going to ask you to talk to them. They love you and they will understand. Give them some credit. Please talk to them it won't be as bad as you think it will be. It never is that bad, your mind makes it worse than reality.
And if you can't or won't talk to your parents talk to you Bishop he has to hold what you tell him in confidence and he can help you.
Please don't run from this. Please talk to your parents it's to late for your boyfriend he is already in trouble. Don't let yourself fall deeper into this Running is not the answer.
2007-01-11 18:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by AceOfBears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young and stupid -- someone had to tell you.
If you go forward with the marriage you will regret it. If you break things off, you'll have some time to grow up and get over it. Five years from now you will inevidably realize that you are currently young and stupid. The girl I loved when I was 17 is now married with three kids and I'm good friends with her husband.
I was young and stupid at 17 as were all my friends playing with love and relationships. I dated a 18 year old when I was a few years older and much more mature -- wasn't the best situation to put myself in.
If this guy was worth dating, he'd be responsible enough not to date girls your age. If you don't grow up quickly now and realize the stupidity of your situation, you'll grow up in a real hurry once married. I've seen teenage brides meet the real world... be happy being a kid for another year or two.
2007-01-11 18:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he getting into trouble? Oh thats right, he is going to sleep with a woman that is under the age of 18.
When your 17, you don't know what love is between a man and a woman.
You wanna answer? You can't have a successful marriage when your doing your social studies homework and your husband is working at taco bell!
2007-01-11 18:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jay Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your parents are being strict just because they're mormom. you don't seem to be using logic. 1st off you're 17 and still have a bit to learn about love. 2nd, you think you can save him from trouble. you can only save yourself, and why would he be getting introuble. is he a bad person? You should seriously think harder before jumping into marriage so young and w/ someone troubled.
2007-01-11 18:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aye girl you need to grow up before you get married get older be wiht him longer because you never know what could happen down the road. **** 2 months from now yall can not stand each other then what .
ur parents arent morons mija they just want whats best for you
2007-01-11 18:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by shybutreal2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait for a few years. If you marry now, you'll miss all of your youth, not to mention later on down the road, you and this guy may end up divorced.
2007-01-11 18:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here ya go,good luck to ya!
2007-01-11 18:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will understand your "situation" much better than you think. They too were kids once upon a time. **PLEASE** talk to them!
2007-01-11 18:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Husker41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search in google !
2007-01-11 18:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ali 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
calm your fire girl, or you'll end up being burnt
2007-01-11 18:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋